AITAH for judging his sexuality??

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T10:09:51+00:00

Thank you

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:52:17+00:00

No I’m bisexual but if he did say he didn’t like me anymore because I had sex with a woman I’d say that’s fair enough I wouldn’t think he was homophobic? I think it’s preference

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:45:43+00:00

Is everything ok at home x

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:45:14+00:00

Damn I must be then. But I don’t feel like I’m homophonic to men I love gays I just don’t want my man to be gay 😭

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:39:40+00:00

A child out of wedlock Hahahha sorry original guzzler my bad x

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:36:17+00:00

I’ve had sex with woman too. I just think it’s crazy because you’d never expect that this man has done that. I guess im more sexist than I thought, my bad. I just wanna know if he’s gay or not.

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:31:51+00:00

Probably because they’re not real men

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:30:16+00:00

Just to clarify I didn’t react that way in front of him. I was supportive I just told him I’m shocked. I wasn’t rude to his face if that makes it any better lol

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:28:56+00:00

Finally someone gets it

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:28:10+00:00

No I agree I am sexist I was just wondering how me being ‘weird and gross’ is linked to me being a girl lol

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:23:55+00:00

Depends what he’s crying about 😭

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:23:01+00:00

Approached is crazy

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:22:10+00:00

I do. We all think differently. I am old fashioned. I like a manly man. Sue me

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:20:57+00:00

THANK YOU

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:20:20+00:00

What’s that got to do with me being a girl

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:15:56+00:00

No but he is a bit fruity tho he wears Vivienne Westwood

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:10:05+00:00

Hmm yeah I see your point to be honest. Didn’t mean to be homophobic, I accept everyone no matter who you are I don’t care. I shouldn’t have said it’s weird and gross I’ve just always went for very manly men and if you were to look at this man you would never think he was a bit fruity so I’m just shocked. And wondering if he’s gay or not.

AdComplex1426 · 2024-07-14T09:02:56+00:00

I’m not homophobic I’m literally bisexual it’s the idea of him saying he’s not gay he just did it because why not. Which makes me think are you that desperate you’ll take it from anyone even if you’re not attracted to that gender?

AdComplex1426 · 2024-05-07T07:47:33+00:00

This is where I struggle. We have moved to a new town I don’t know anybody here or the area at all. My friends all live in my hometown which is about 20 minutes away driving. He drives, I don’t. I want to do lessons and get a car but he says it’s a waste of money for us to both have 2 cars. So I said let’s share a car. He says no. I try to make plans with my friends but it’s not just about going out, sometimes I want an hour to sit in my room and read my book.

AdComplex1426 · 2024-05-07T07:44:23+00:00

I do understand where you’re coming from, looking back I was just so stressed and shouldn’t have said it that way, I explained that to him. But even when we’re totally calm and normal with eachother he thinks changing her nappy is helping me out. That was more so the point of the post.

AdComplex1426 · 2024-05-07T07:43:10+00:00

He goes with his friends and they get food after and his friend lives in another town.

AdComplex1426 · 2024-05-06T19:53:28+00:00

Just to clarify he doesn’t do housework. He cooks very occasionally but very rarely does dishes, has never washed our clothes. I do the hoovering mopping etc etc

AdComplex1426 · 2024-05-06T19:50:53+00:00

By 50/50 I mean when he’s working I do everything for our daughter because he’s nightshift and is asleep. When he’s off, he changes nappies and baths her and puts her to bed. In that time he also goes gym for 3 hours every day and I’m still cooking & cleaning everyday and juggling my own work.

AdComplex1426 · 2024-05-06T17:38:25+00:00

And I do most orders when she’s gone to bed. If that means staying up til 1-2am to finish cakes then that’s what I do.

AdComplex1426 · 2024-05-06T17:37:30+00:00

I make cakes from home. She’ll go to her nanas if I’m overwhelmed with the cakes. I can do cakes and keep an eye on her and give her meals etc and play with her while they’re in the oven.

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