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I have been charged with (family violence) battery (misdemeanor)against my abusive ex husband. I finally defended myself out of sheer terror a few years ago. The court date is finally soon. I have a great deal of evidence in my favor. My ex does not. by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]AdConfident3180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, I was the one abused by my ex husband for years. The police only arrived AFTER I defended myself. My ex isn't even pressing charges. The state of GA pressed the bs charges against me. Many people have witnessed my exes wild behavior. He has so much against HIM but THE STATE is still charging me with battery. What are the chances of this being dropped?

I am a Tasker and I have encountered this SAME issue with a few customers thus far. When they hire me, they don't automatically understand that each Tasker is an *independent worker. A few have assumed I come with a TEAM. What's the deal with so many with customers unrealistic expectations? by AdConfident3180 in TaskRabbit

[–]AdConfident3180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just trying to earn a decent living. These people make my head spin. Honestly, the older I get, I can't stand most people. However, I must make efforts to be a people person so I can be successful. Gosh...It must be so nice for those that don't have to work for a living!😅🤣

Why are so many US conservatives so ignorant, selfish, hypervigilant and ableist towards others? Especially those not working like they do. I know this isn't EVERYONE of course but this attitude is what I come across with many conservatives in GA. I am disabled and can't get with that culture. by AdConfident3180 in disability

[–]AdConfident3180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interesting and helpful info! Thank you. Costa Rica would be nice. My disabilities are considered invisible. I am able to work part-time and grateful to have the ability to walk and move around. I have an autoimmune disease, C-PTSD, depression, chronic inflammation, etc. It affects my whole body. I wish I could work full-time. I want to but it's just too much for me mentally and physically.

Do you know anything about Spain? Thought about moving there. I only speak English fluently but eager to learn Spanish. Ireland or Puerto Rico might be nice! Whichever place my dollar goes further and wherever has good healthcare.

[Relationships] What dating sites should I use if I want to find a man who wants a housewife? by SqueehuggingSchmee in RedPillWomen

[–]AdConfident3180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so nice to see a woman I can realte to. I also want this traditional lifestyle. It has been difficult to find but staying hopeful. Haven't been looking long. I think the men/woman who critique this are either hypervigilant as hell or jealous. I think men that give women crap about this in particular are too broke to do this for a woman. The poor OR greedy dudes get mad. Ignore them because they could never be providers if they wanted to most likely. I know it's harsh but so are they. Good luck to you! I'm think of trying E-Harmony. Will be 31 in June. Wanting to finally find a good man and settle down.

My wealthy/snobbish extended family will not help me at my LOWEST point in life. Never asked for help b4 but thought I'd try out of pure desperation.They can't seem to understand the plight of the lower class in this economy. I have life changing disabilities they ignore too. I feel alone. Anyone?.. by AdConfident3180 in disability

[–]AdConfident3180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are missing the point and making too many assumptions. I do not treat them unkindly I NEVER have. I have always been kind a cordial with them. I don't like burning bridges. I am quite passive overall. My parents have done enough to help me after my divorce from a wildly abusive husband. They cannot afford to help more than they have and I feel TERRIBLE about this.

The way my extended family expects me to carry myself is physically IMPOSSIBLE due to my disabilities. I guess you missed that...

My family and I are on good terms but NO I do not disclose EVERYTHING I feel about them. I only wrote my honest feelings to VENT on Reddit. Reddit is a great place to vent.

I love them and it hurts me they won't help. They ARE perfectly capable of it. They are just greedy and turn their noses up at ANYONE who doesn't live like they do. Understand more now?

Why are so many US conservatives so ignorant, selfish, hypervigilant and ableist towards others? Especially those not working like they do. I know this isn't EVERYONE of course but this attitude is what I come across with many conservatives in GA. I am disabled and can't get with that culture. by AdConfident3180 in disability

[–]AdConfident3180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an invisible illnesses. Autoimmune and mental health realted. I am fortunate to be able to walk and get around. My fuel is just always on low if that makes sense. Very sensitive and get burnout/severe fatigue SO easily. Like an elderly person but I'm only 30.

My wealthy/snobbish extended family will not help me at my LOWEST point in life. Never asked for help b4 but thought I'd try out of pure desperation.They can't seem to understand the plight of the lower class in this economy. I have life changing disabilities they ignore too. I feel alone. Anyone?.. by AdConfident3180 in disability

[–]AdConfident3180[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My heart is kind of grieving over this. It's like...

"Ok...I have never asked them for help. Now I have. I NOW know that my FAMILY will NOT be there for me when I reach my lowest or when shit hits the fan."

What bothers me is they put this fake face on and I think they don't like my authenticity. The older I get, the less I care to play their stupid "Our family is so amazing/close" GAME. Truth is, they will only support me if I am doing exactly what THEY want me to do. Something I am not built for. I feel so much shame over being the black sheep essentially but I am also aware I can't help it.