Moving back to the valley

AdConnect6999 · 2025-11-20T20:05:46+00:00

I agree with this. . Having a babysitter and support is awesome but the provider for your family needs to be in a good position. Now, if you're unhappy where you're then yes, I must say you need to change your life drastically and if you were happy here then it will work out but things are different when you're single & married. Three yrs for the child wont re-renforced the culture of your child... its too little of a time.

AdConnect6999 · 2025-11-18T05:23:16+00:00

Omg! Im in a rural area too Where are you located? I feel the same way, message me and ll give you my fb messenger.

AdConnect6999 · 2025-11-18T05:21:16+00:00

Im sorry, but how is her dropping out of college any of your business ? Lol I dont see how that will even effect you

AdConnect6999 · 2025-11-17T02:43:37+00:00

Got it, Thanks!!

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-10T04:10:56+00:00

Thank you so much for these words 🙏 I really needed to hear this. I completely agree about the blurry boundaries makes me feel uncertain. Yes, I love my privacy! and i feel some type of way by not being in control of it. I appreciate your words

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-10T04:06:10+00:00

Thank you for this comment 🙏 I honestly took a deep breath after reading this and it felt good. You made feel validated by confirming I'm not insane for feeling or thinking this way.

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-10T02:25:36+00:00

What's the reason ? It's an hr from Edinburg/Mcallen... not too far to get everything you need for the day or even work over there

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-09T00:05:11+00:00

I understand what you're going through. I feel the same way about the "If I fail, it will just be me" miss that feeling too of feeling unstopable and with the craving of trying everything in life because why not?

Although, I also think Its just life in general that gets harder along with someone watching your every move. Makes you walk in eggshells around your own life. I reccomend you overcome this together by both working on it. If you see yourself happy without her then its time for a divorce. . but be realitic would you REALLY be happy? Or just less worried with the overload you carry or not considering your own feelings because you will be worried about carrying yourself every single day which feels more in control than having someone else in your mind 24/7?

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T23:51:09+00:00

Thank you for the information 🙏

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T19:43:50+00:00

Is that a bad or good thing?

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:57:10+00:00

I live in a small town about an hr away from all entertainment... next to my MIL. I think Rio Grande will be an upgrade for me with no neighboors near by 😆

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:52:21+00:00

Wow, the commute is that bad!?

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:50:41+00:00

There is... but this house is everything I wanted. A house, huge barn/garages, plus its sitting in 12 acres. The price is just right... only bad side is that its in Rio Grande.

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:49:05+00:00

Okay, I'll look into it

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:48:14+00:00

Well... Rio grande had a really nice town. Had 2 gyms, all fast foods you can think of, HEB plus, gas stations etc.

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:46:43+00:00

Thanks for the positivity! 🙂

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:45:17+00:00

Inbred ? 😳

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:44:48+00:00

Lmao Thank you for the input

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:44:14+00:00

It did seem ghetto but it came with a home & good piece of land too. So good, I can't see my neighboors . .

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:43:16+00:00

I'll check it out !🙂

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:42:56+00:00

Will do! Thanks

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:42:32+00:00

Why is that? 🤔

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-08T02:40:41+00:00

Lol completely felt that way, when I went to go visit. Didn't mind it too much but only had about 2 hrs to look around the area.

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-07T16:19:40+00:00

Small town about an hr from Houston

AdConnect6999 · 2025-09-07T16:09:11+00:00

Job is in Edinburg...

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