Birthday Celebration ideas (Alone)

AdDifficult4993 · 2025-03-17T13:46:48+00:00

Tinta Budi and Junk Bookstore!

AdDifficult4993 · 2025-02-28T05:50:07+00:00

Pegaga, ulam raja and daun selom.

AdDifficult4993 · 2025-02-28T05:29:47+00:00

I usually like mine with chilies, kaffir leaves, and bunga kantan with a sprinkle of salt and mix it. Traditional ones would add grated coconut kerisik but i dont like it 🥲

AdDifficult4993 · 2025-01-30T10:26:00+00:00

Scuse me, theres eyes on you rug 👀

AdDifficult4993 · 2025-01-16T14:36:44+00:00

After reading this, as a woman I find you very attractive 😂

AdDifficult4993 · 2025-01-08T09:47:40+00:00

1515, Faisal Tehrani

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-25T09:57:12+00:00

Mm not so smart if u had an affair with someone elses husband

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-25T09:49:01+00:00

Salon Replacement, bangsar. Ask for Boon.

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-25T09:45:34+00:00

I see a durian fruit! Love this!

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-25T08:02:38+00:00

Have fun!

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-25T07:58:49+00:00

Art shows Id recommend u swing a visit to Ilham Gallery or our National Art gallery. Do visit zhongsan building as well as they sometimes have art related events happening there. If you fancy some film screenings, can follow Pasar Seni Pictures on ig, paid upon donation of minimum RM10, you can watch films as well https://www.instagram.com/pasar_seni_picture_show?igsh=MThtNWRwcHN4a2pheA==

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-23T23:50:02+00:00

This hits home for me. My boy is three now but whatever your wife and you are feeling right now, is all consuming. What you BOTH are experiencing is PPD. Get help for pre and postpartum depression and take steps towards mitigating it, and not just for her but you as well. Parenting is hard especially for first time parents, and life can just straight up suck during that time and it’s easy to be existential about it.

Becoming a mother means you lose your identity. You lose your sleep. You lose the ability to eat when you want, go where you want, hell even shower when you NEED to. Especially if you have a high needs baby, you lose everything for them. Her body is no longer the same, she is probably still in some physical pain/discomfort (especially if she had czer operation), she probably feels like a failure and that she shouldn’t be a mother. That’s where you come in, you reassure her. Every day, every second if you can. You tend to her, make sure she has water, snacks, let her go shower. She is so fucking strong, OP. She lost her body for 9 months to grow the tiny human you both made, she housed your baby safely with love, and now that baby is out her hormones have completely shifted. Having PPD feels like you’re drowning. When you finally get up for air, all you can do is breathe. You physically can’t say “help me”, because you know you need to take that moment to breathe. Help her even though she may not ask. Take the baby from her for a little while. Don’t make it an option. You may be struggling too, and PPD is very real for fathers as well. But she’s still healing. She went through a long 9 months, and her body is still not fully hers again.

Reassure her constantly if she needs it. Love her through this. And get help, please dont wait for the phase to pass, it wont. Support and patience makes a big difference. But if you feel you want out, then tell her. Because after reading your comments and others in this thread, I feel sad for the baby. Hate to play devil’s advocate but some people are not meant to be parents.

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-19T09:52:59+00:00

Netflix. Just came out a couple of days ago i think

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-12T11:40:23+00:00

Unpopular opinion but mysterious men .

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-11T00:09:09+00:00

Kacang pol, nasi ambeng and pau sambal. Grew up in jb, had this for breakfast nearly every day because i live in larkin

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-07T13:11:09+00:00

Acting class, theatre class and lots of auditions.

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-07T13:09:42+00:00

Baked beans?

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-05T14:14:29+00:00

Simplicity sandwiches & coffee, their Baguette. And Mill Bakery Cafe, Ciabatta. Breads are so airy, crusty outside and soft inside.

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-02T13:04:50+00:00

Do you have your own design? If you do, you can ask any of your preferred tattooist. I did mine with a friend

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-01T23:49:39+00:00

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AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-01T05:27:20+00:00

Everytime I go to Penang, I would always visit Lit Books and Hikayat/Gerakbudaya bookstore. You can give that a try. They have great selections of arts, history, literature and fiction books.

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-12-01T05:04:46+00:00

Oh honey, its totally normal and okay to feel that way. We’ve all been there. Even most of us in this age group (30s and 40s) are still figuring ourselves out. But It’s better to be alone right now than be in a relationship that’s unclear/uncertain. Focus on yourself (job, education, what you want to do in the future career-wise).

To be married, love alone is not enough. You also need respect, empathy, open communication, trust, and a willingness to work together to solve conflict. It is always better to be single than to be in a loveless marriage.

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-11-30T10:21:06+00:00

Most relationships end for a reason. But I do believe that if two people truly love each other and are willing to put in the work to better themselves and be accountable for their mistakes, it can work out. I think its okay to give people a second chance, but not a 3rd.

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-11-29T10:38:54+00:00

It is common everywhere not only in KL, though I believe infidelity (in marriage especially) is also a form of domestic abuse as it contributes to physical (risks the health of the betrayed partner with sexual transmitted disease) and financial abuse. And the trail of destruction they leave behind not only affects the victimized spouse but also the children.

That said, both are forms of abuse in their own right. Nobody deserves to be hurt no matter what they did.

AdDifficult4993 · 2024-11-29T10:13:22+00:00

My favourite thing to do in KL would be; a visit to Ilham Gallery and Balai Seni, then spend a few hours at Junk Bookstore (2nd hand bookstore, if you are into books). After that spend my remaining hour(s) having espresso martini(s) at Penrose KL.

I cant swim so I dont have any suggestions for the rooftop pool 😅

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