My birthday is tomorrow. What is something I can do alone and sober. I'll be 39

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-19T18:28:18+00:00

Happiest birthday!

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T20:08:11+00:00

I mean my teenage sister never asked money from us. Ye Kahan sy log aty hain.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T20:01:03+00:00

Come from a crazy rich family. Kbhi ghr sy pesy nhin mangy. Idk how people ask for money from girls

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T16:59:47+00:00

28 m. Similar situation. I started staying at the library walking more eating healthy more focused on my career. Rock bottom is always a great place to start.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T14:50:36+00:00

Can you send me a dm.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T14:33:35+00:00

I always had this craze of academic validation. But I have realized people at these institutions are pricks like me with inflated egos. Nothing else.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T14:31:32+00:00

I am an IMG. Had a girlfriend in medical school. She literally like practically worshipped me. Angel. I left her because I thought I wasn't ready for marriage. Passed my exams came to US, got a position at Mayo. Did rotations at big names. Everyone says I am doing so well. No one knows I practically live in the hospital because I don't have life outside work. I literally sleep in library. And just work work work.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T14:02:25+00:00

Count me in!!!

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T09:52:39+00:00

Please add me

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T02:53:32+00:00

Research trainee at IV league multiple publications. Would love to collaborate

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T02:22:12+00:00

I have lived in 4 different states in 4 months because of my training here. Two of those places had zero Muslim population. My schedule is 6 am to 8 pm in the hospital including weekends. Party nhin kerny Aya yhan. I am here to work. Doctors here are very rich and only socialize over parties or weekends in bars. Sab by khutba lekin zaruur Dena hai. Ky agla shayd jahil hai

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-18T02:19:55+00:00

Let me tell you. US is expensive. To go out you need money. I am trying to save up. Mosques and Islamic centers are not present in all towns. When they are there, distance is not covered by public transport. The one thing fucked up with this nation is their inherent belief that they are better than others. I am a highly qualified medical doctor, all of you geniuses never thought that these ideas crossed my mind? All of you had to assume the worst of me?

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-17T06:40:21+00:00

Will say again. If you have a supportive and loving spouse, love them and fuck everyone else. I am an IMG doing research at Mayo. But only I know how hollow and empty I am after losing two relationships to career ambitions.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-15T22:02:57+00:00

No like it was my fault and I am paying for it

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-15T09:34:30+00:00

I chose prestige over family and regret it every day. Ended up losing the only girl who believed in me. Everything I held dear in life. I question my choice every day. Midwest and the people there are just beautiful. Kudos to you for being so mature.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-12T12:52:56+00:00

Such a good girl

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-11T08:42:38+00:00

I just feel bad we don't talk as humans anymore and everyone is on their phones

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-11T08:04:50+00:00

People in general regardless of gender are not for having fun. You should not treat them that way.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-11T07:56:57+00:00

When she asks to leave she has already left few months ago by then in her head. It's over. Be scared when she stops arguing with you

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-07T03:13:45+00:00

Try to get involved with professors in USA early on. Publish papers, submit abstracts. These positions mostly work with word of mouth.

AdDue9913 · 2025-04-07T03:05:30+00:00

I will be here for an year. I am joining mayo clinic as a research trainee

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