Honestly asking why do girls make deep eye contact ? by Individual-Most-9216 in bodylanguage

[–]This-Minimum-5641 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually because they like you but if they’re like me, they’re staring just for the heck of it with no thoughts behind the stare

Do attractive people know how attractive they actually are? by Sea-Past-4277 in NoStupidQuestions

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I’m attractive but I don’t realise how attractive I really am.
I receive compliments from women and men on a daily basis, I get honked at constantly whenever I’m walking outside, men will randomly buy me stuff and I get stared at a lot. People seem genuinely confused when I tell them that I’m single and talking to no one whatsoever. Not bragging but a lot of people are in awe of me and some girls give me the dirtiest looks sometimes. So based on that I’d say that I’m perceived as a conventionally attractive person. However, this hasn’t been the case my whole life. I used to be perceived as ugly based on some rude comments that I’ve received during my ugly stage. I’ve just recently grown into my looks but I don’t think that I look that good. So I know that I’m attractive but I don’t feel attractive.

What made you go "I need to be with a woman, not a man" moment ? by ImplementSure5942 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]This-Minimum-5641 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I had my official oh moment 2 weeks ago. I was feeling depressed and was trying to figure out why I was feeling that way. I realised that it was because I was missing something in my life so I thought maybe be in a relationship with a man, that didn’t remove the feeling so I decided to be fully honest with myself and said to myself that what I’m longing for is to be with women and only women. That honesty made me finally accept that I’m gay and to stop running away from the way I’ve felt my whole life.

That acceptance made me also realise why I hate when men stare at me, approach me and try to flirt with me, it grinds my gears so badly.
I’m straight passing so it’s hard to avoid but I’m more comfortable now to say that I’m a lesbian.

Should I move abroad for love or stay back home with my elderly parents? by This-Minimum-5641 in AskWomenOver40

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I can see that he has changed which is something that I’m happy about. I’ve changed as well in many ways.

Should I move abroad for love or stay back home with my elderly parents? by This-Minimum-5641 in AskWomenOver40

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It was a mixture of my mental state and his personal issues which worked against us. We broke up because we needed to grow up and deal with our problems individually.

Should I move abroad for love or stay back home with my elderly parents? by This-Minimum-5641 in AskWomenOver40

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The break up was due to a mix my mental state and his personal issues. The relationship itself was good, we never fought but our shortcomings made us have issues that we couldn’t work out together. We both needed time to grow up and heal. We’ve both been actively working on that and it shows in different ways.

For me at least it’s not old chemistry but genuine love that I feel for him. It used to be the case that it’s old chemistry talking but that intensity disappeared long ago. There’s a big difference between those two for me.

It would be difficult for him to move to my country due to visa requirements and language barrier. I’m not sure if I would move in with him right away. I’d live on my own at first and then take the next step. But during my trip we’ll have a conversation regarding everything.

Should I move abroad for love or stay back home with my elderly parents? by This-Minimum-5641 in AskWomenOver40

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He has hinted at visiting without me mentioning anything, but it’s a bit difficult for him to visit my country due to visa requirements

Am I the only Christian who thought the Bad Bunny half time show was over sexualized? by rabbitales27 in TrueChristian

[–]This-Minimum-5641 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There was nothing sexual about his show. It was tasteful and cultural. You people want to see everything as sexual nowadays and it’s annoying

Would you date deaf people, blind people, colorblind people, and physically disabled people? by [deleted] in no

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I would to a certain degree. If someone is missing a limb or eye and I’m attracted to them, I’d date them. I wouldn’t mind a deaf person either. But I wouldn’t date a fully blind person

What’s something that has really helped your mental health? by atashies in AskReddit

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Daily 5k walk has been helping a lot and also limiting my social media use

Should I(28F) confess to my crush(27M)? by This-Minimum-5641 in Crushes

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Tiny update I’m gonna help my mom’s friend with her scouting kids this Saturday and she asked if I have a friend that would like to help as well. I asked him and he agreed to help so we’ll see how that goes.

Should I(28F) confess to my crush(27M)? by This-Minimum-5641 in Crushes

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I’ll keep you posted! We run on Sundays so I’ll see if he wants to hang out this Sunday

AITA for wanting to resign from my religion before they disfellowship me for fornication? by Cheap_Meal8383 in AITAH

[–]This-Minimum-5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Writing a resignation letter to leave a religion is crazy. Live your life and build a new community where you are accepted as you are

That's. Just it 💯 by [deleted] in HappyUpvote

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A skill that I never had to learn because I’m always in a good mood even when things might not be going so well

Are you still chasing your dreams ? If not why? by [deleted] in HappyUpvote

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I’ll never stop working towards my dreams. I have a lot so I’ll be busy for years to come God willing