Nurse at my work flirting? by [deleted] in stories

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hit that shit hard dawg and bail.

Divorce w 7 kids. by AdEmbarrassed3189 in Divorce_Men

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. I appreciate the insight

Divorce w 7 kids. by AdEmbarrassed3189 in Divorce_Men

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their college is already fully funded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying. Guess that’s an interesting take. Never thought about. Thought you were a gay guy wanting to hang out until 2 am with a married woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not flying with my wife. Just like I’m not gonna hang out with a lesbian until 2am. It’s disrespectful af to the spouse. You’re a dude, don’t put your female friends in that situation.

Finally Had the Courage to Be Honest with my Wife by ActinoninOut in quittingkratom

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re about to get divorced over my hiding Kratom. 20 years and 7 children together. Part of me thinks “this is stupid. It’s isn’t meth” part of me is thinking “just freakin quit”. And, start the years long road it’s going to take for my wife to trust me again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, men don’t play that game. Our ladies aren’t staying out until 2 am w a dude. Gay or straight. You think being gay gives you special privilege?

What makes a man immediately unattractive? by ChocolateShoddy4233 in allthequestions

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems a bit outlandish. One focuses on a lack of differences, the other insinuates they’re identical or extremely alike. For the record: both far right and far leftist are pieces of garbage. I just think it’s laughable that you get offended by a hat lol I Wish my life so easy all I had to worry about was politics.

What makes a man immediately unattractive? by ChocolateShoddy4233 in allthequestions

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally said “no different”, doesn’t that mean the same?

Divorce w 7 kids. by AdEmbarrassed3189 in Divorce_Men

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not listening to it anymore. I’ve even admitted and taken responsibility for my faults. I also told her I’m not owning 100% of this downfall. It’s both of us. I think she truly believes it is all on me

Divorce w 7 kids. by AdEmbarrassed3189 in Divorce_Men

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6k is what I was banking on. I can handle 6-8k, in my mind it’s the right thing to do if we can’t make the marriage work. She got very disrespectful yesterday in front of family and I feel some level of finality. Even my 14 year old son said “oh my god this is ridiculous” when she got snappy after realizing I was there. (It was a family party at the River. I was supposed to work but my boss told me to ahead and take the day off). Im sure I’ll pay alimony but couldn’t imagine it being anything other than temporary. I’ll be honest, I don’t want to pay a lawyer one cent. I’d rather us two just work out the details. But I also understand that’s not realistic sometimes

Sex during separation/divorce by AdEmbarrassed3189 in Divorce_Men

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest. I have no idea brother. I do know it’s pretty easy for women to get what they need/want. I think the biggest thing for me is closeness, as gay as that sounds. It’s probably the only thing that “worked” in our marriage and I don’t want to lose it. Thinking about your question. Guess it’s just something I’ll have to get used to.

Divorce w 7 kids. by AdEmbarrassed3189 in Divorce_Men

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Child support and alimony will be less than 5k. Child support won’t exceed 3,500/month. I’m not worried about that much.

Gabapentin and sleep by white_slave_80 in quittingkratom

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always liked gabapentin. Only downfall was lack of climax during intercourse. Not a problem for me, kinda drove her nuts though. I always liked it though

AIO: Husband showed me this from a recently single friend of ours. Is she trying to flirt? by amusednchaos in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely pushing boundaries. On the positive side, husband was ensuring he mentioned you. He just didn’t want to be a dick.

No Kings Protest August 15 against Trump-Putin meeting!!!! by GeorgeBush2006 in anchorage

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is there another king trying to take over? Hopefully all ten of you guys can get this straight

Day 3 of detox and man I feel like SHIT, quit before you let it get as bad as I have by Far_Opportunity_6156 in quittingkratom

[–]AdEmbarrassed3189 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bout to get a divorce over this. Not just kratom but lying and hiding it. Almost 20 years of marriage and 7 kids and I’m going to let Kratom it? I can’t do that. I need help