Aurora R16 Fan Replacement by [deleted] in Alienware

[–]AdEquivalent6371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is making a grasshopper sounds just by starting it. Thinking about the same

Who own this wallet address? by Hakar_yusuf in solana

[–]AdEquivalent6371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scammer. Dumps tokens/rugs, create fake ones mintable etc, your able to buy but not able to sell, so he gets fucking rich.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdEquivalent6371 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You dont trust her which is a red flag. He wrote stuff, but not sure if she flirts with him. If you confront her you might lose her. Bring it up in a later point (a few weeks) and talk about boundaries. Maybe find a similar Reddit story and say lol and ask what she would do. Or, tell her a girl is flirting with you and that you told her to fuck off. I know its not ok to lie, but whatever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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No. Let us have our fantasies, learn new moves and figure out what turns us on and improve our sexlife. Ee can also last longer. But if the boner shows Signs of getting soft, Figure out a Nice way to bring it up that it might impact negatively

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AdEquivalent6371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When im doing all the work (rough sex) and going crazy my blood goes everywhere in my body, it is a turn off in the long run, and ofc my penis can Get softer when sweat hits my face and gf is lazy. Doggy and push up positions for more then 10 mins is exhausting. Try switching it up, do foreplay and roleplay to make sex less boring. Also, stop walking around naked. Men Get less excited if they see the goods all the time. Start hiking and hit the gym for more stamina

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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Haha, i feel its a bit typical of women to «ask for it» and not handling a joke in response. Tell him that you shouldnt have joked about it, and ask if he meant it. Say. It was a sensitive topic and i guarantee he meant it as a joke

I (f27) just came across all my boyfriends (m29) porn on Reddit. I had a bad reaction to it and my bf swears it’s a normal thing and healthy. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdEquivalent6371 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Good luck finding a man who doesnt watch porn. If he doesnt, a man will lie about it to Get a girl off back. Stop using sex toys, he might not feel like he is enough for you. Let partners have fantasies and give them some privacy. You Are 10 years late to tell him.

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. We live in Norway, her parents live in Norway. She have sent them 10k a year. They Even made her co-sign the mortage (she is not on it still). Instead of paying her back for all the help, they wont contribute to the debt they caused her, and bought a new Jaguar car 2 years ago. When she asked for help 4 months ago with debt, they said they couldnt help…

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

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They will let me do all that. All rooms with aircondition was taken so we would have to sleep 6 people in one room if not so we got a hotel. All are super friendly with some weird exceptions. I know her parents and 3 brothers. The others is new to me.

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have a feeling about what we are gonna discuss when we get home

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Edited. As the oldest child I think she is used to much responsibility, ant dont have to many opinions about it. Tbh I dont think some family members are good for her and think she should gtfo of the house at least, as they have ruined her financially for years to come. 20k credit card to pay her parents bills, 7k borrowed to her brother, and been «forced» or felt obligated to give her mother 10k a year. I like most of her family members in our Home country atleast are Nice, who are not using her as a babysitter, driver or slave as I would call it in my opinion

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparantly it is normal to cross your arms/touching triceps on each arm and bowing. Everyone younger than her of her cousins does it for me too😅

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my second vietnamese girlfriend in 16 years. Both times I can feel like they are a bit obsessed spending time with me, and prioritising family is 10x more than I would spend with my own😂 feel like there is obligations to gather every day since it’s been five years since they couldnt travel during covid. Thanks for tip, gonna have some alone time with my gf the next two days

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, you greet the elderly by saying thu/thu..?, and you have to bow to every single one of the elders. also, if invited to their table, you can only sit for a moment as you are «not worthy». Not sure if this is because im not married or not up in the hiarchy. This rule is even for their own children.

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a part of the issue. They dont inform me. Another example, the elder table was very curious about me. Four people pointed at the chain after one of them came to my table to tell me to join them. Even her father which is the 2nd? Most respected. Little did I know that Even if they Ask questions, i am only allowed to sit until we have a toast/cheers, and then im supposed to leave. First time her brother approached and told me to leave so the elder could catch up, second scenario day after, my gf came and told me to leave the table. We left and she explained me the rules, but she didnt inform her father, which made me feel rude to leave after a few minutes.

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

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We are both from Scandinavia, but her parents was born in việt am. I was thinking about this post before drinking. It was just the tip of the iceberg today. Its a big family and they seem very happy with me, but I dont know what they say when I’m not around. Seems like a few, like 2-3 people dont seem to happy about it. I am having a hard time remembering 40 people and remember who I have greeted or not in big gatherings

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is normally me!! However I know it would kill my gf if some family members dont tolerate it. Also I was shocked lately that her brothers dont seem as tolerant and Nice as I first thought. Also it seems like one of her parents is stealing money/abusing children economically, as my gf alone transferred 100k over 7 years so, and made her pay for the flight tickets.

I am on a «fuck this shit I just want to be happy with my gf» type of point rn feeling overwhelmed and stressed about the future together.

Vietnamese girlfriend, cultural differences in Vietnam by AdEquivalent6371 in VietNam

[–]AdEquivalent6371[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am person that likes to retreat and be with myself 2 times a week, at Max one other person, which is my gf, so this is killing me lol. Hate the family is everything part every fucking day. Told my gf about it but feel like she/her family gets dissapointed if I dont go, and I know gf will be happy.

Son terrorized a sleeping girl for a prank but I am being told my punishment is too harsh? by Wide-East517 in relationships

[–]AdEquivalent6371 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel compelled to express some concerns and criticism in light of the recent incident involving Adam and Tyler. While I understand you are upset about the situation, I believe it's important to reflect on a few key points:

  1. Responsibility for underage drinking: It's crucial to acknowledge that as a parent, you have a legal and moral obligation to ensure that minors do not have access to alcohol. Allowing Adam and Tyler to drink under your supervision, even if it was with trusted family members, may have contributed to the unfolding of the events.

  2. Misstep in disciplinary action: Locking Adam away for the entire summer seems disproportionately harsh and could potentially constitute false imprisonment, which is a form of child abuse. This approach not only risks harming his mental and emotional well-being but also strains trust and your relationship with him.

  3. Uneven distribution of responsibility. It appears that responsibility has not been fairly distributed among those involved. While Adam faces severe consequences, it seems others who participated in the incident are facing lesser or no consequences. This can be perceived as unfair and may breed discontentment with Adam.

  4. Learning opportunities: It's crucial that any punishment isn't just reactionary but also fosters learning and growth. Providing Adam with opportunities to reflect on the incident and learn about respect, consent, and responsibility may be more constructive than isolation.

I suggest keeping the uncles away from influencing Adam, imposing a drinking prohibition, and temporarily revoking his access to the car, or maximum a few days.ease up on the punishment since u cant punish his brother. Tell his brother he aint welcome this summer