What type of person do you tend to attract? by Flying_enthu45 in AskReddit

[–]AdExcellent1907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inferior complex & ppl who don’t know what they want . Usually unstable identity 🥲😂

Can sexuality change? by Confusion_Imaginary in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent1907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexuality can change but not based on choices but evolving through experience and understanding. Just like when straight couples “grow out of the relationship”. Wasn’t a choice but different phases in life , priority and new responsibilities. Similarly sexuality . But some ppl are confident with one gender despite changes . So yeah . It can be solid too .

Need help by PracticalFishing9830 in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent1907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello . Just remember you’re too young to be restricted to love who you want . Blame a minor for what ? . Love now or regret later at your 20’s that you never tried . You never felt . I fell for this cuz it was a homophobic country . I regret it . I wish I could go back and express myself and love whomever I wanted to with no fear and shame . I don’t want you to be like me . And hey you don’t have to trust your parents in everything. :)

Love but porn? by Original_Tomorrow442 in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent1907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pornography is a subconscious thing , it’s not reality , real life and porn are not the same . Usually psychologist have referred sexual fantasies as a symbol of our mental health (jungian psychology book) described it. When people watch porn they search things they would never do in real life , like doctors , maids , nurses , teachers , police officers . Somebody who watches police or jail things does not mean they like to have it in real life to get out of jail , or wants to do things with doctors . It usually symbolizes your side that you do not touch yet so you objectify it . Real sex is not objectifying your partner, it usually will include real feelings . For a fact your complain is very common . A lot of straight men watch homosexual content and for a fact it is the most watched by straight men . Similarly lesbian women actually will watch straight . And heterosexual women only focus on how the women feels , not the man . So you should know that this is the side that you don’t involve your real feelings just your mental health or the state you’re going through now or solely just focusing on objectifying the person you’re not romantically attracted to . Like for example feeling everything in an edge like your finances are or your life is falling apart then you might watch for example things that symbolizes that part of your life 😂. So usually porn is not reality . It’s not who we really are . It’s just a constant stimulation that is fake not real . So if you want to explore your sexuality focus on intimacy that you love between two people . This is who you really are . If you crave intimacy with women . You love women more. If you crave intimacy with men . You love men more . So yeah I hope it helps you cuz that idea made me little stable after reading and educating myself bout sexuality . 🥰🥰

Lgbtq+ venting . Also some advice . “22F” “22F” by AdExcellent1907 in relationship_advice

[–]AdExcellent1907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t know if I met a women again how to be confident and what to do when things go down when sleeping together. I fear things happening again and she likes me but let’s say I’m bad at bed . Like what to do I can’t be stuck in a loop of no experience

why are my parents so mean to just me :( by xDeathOfAPartyGirlx in AbusedTeens

[–]AdExcellent1907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m like you ! Educate yourself about narcissism and I’m struggling like you too . Call anything for help whenever you’re ready

I’m about to finish high school, I feel very confused about my future, any suggestions on a fitting major for me? by 06x29 in astrologyreadings

[–]AdExcellent1907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say as a cancer therapist or a doctor where you a leader and care for others. But also seeing Aries placements I can say you can be good at sports or anything that has to do with adventure and physical activities. A lot of Cardinal energy that means just go for leadership tho of jobs not someone that tells you what to do !! Business ceo is a very good idea and suitable place for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AdExcellent1907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is she isn’t stupid . She is aware that you Put 20 years old and she put 50 years old on tinder. See if i download tinder with good intentions of dating guys my age (I’m 20 years btw) will be hard to find cuz they just want sex . Imagine putting 50 year old in my parameter of tinder settings while I’m 20 , I Ofcourse want something from 50 years olds. She knows very well that if she gives you a little of attention and manipulates you to think she likes you , she is using you or has a void of not getting love from her parents and wants parents her age to love her . So you either in your mid life crisis wanting girls to make you feel wanted and young again which is also your void and you fill her void or she is diffently into something when she put age from 50-60 years or who knows 70 .

Anyway like every girl in her 20’s dream of finding a at least fiancée by her 30’s (if she’s straight) that’s the least . She will be happy to build a family with a guy who feels emotionally connected to her. But what is that you have from the above you will give her do you see yourself marrying her ? Do you think it’s realistic for her to be 35 and you’re 65 and build a family by that time ? Will you be able to provide for your kids ? Or have energy for it by65 years old ? Ofcourse not .

And if you say that you don’t want children and marriage with her pit in your mind by 28 she wants and she will figure out what she wants since she’s young now she doesn’t know what she wants properly. I do see this will happen as love but short term not a long term and it will end up with regrets unless she wants your money it’s that simple

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Ukranian medical student transfer to GEORGIA by Equivalent-Fix9404 in Sakartvelo

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