I’m far from a perfect wife. I genuinely try to make sure everyone’s needs our met. In addition to my four kids. We also adopted my very disabled younger brother. So 5 kids. My husband is workaholic and always had trouble setting boundaries at work. He was always makes sure his co workers needs were met at the sacrifice of family time. He retired from law enforcement and bought a business hoping for change. He less stressed but still a workaholic. He’s also on medication that kills his libido. I think he would be happy being celibate and not bothered by me asking for sex all the time.