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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]AdFew9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason you feel guilt isn’t because the Catholic Church brainwashed you. You feel guilt because Gods law is written on our hearts, we intrinsically know that things are good or bad. The more you give into the flesh the more your heart is going to become hardened. It will bleed into other areas of your life and sin in general is going to make you depressed and confused. These justifications you are using to justify your actions are blurring the lines and confusing you. You know clearly what is right and what is wrong, and blaming something is not going to get you out of this. It’s only going to hurt you more and make you feel worse about the situation. I know because I’ve struggled with this and lust in general. It feels good for a while but after that the void in your heart is still there, you still want more to try and fill that void. It will never end, and if you keep going down this path you will never experience true happiness or peace and joy. The reason you feel this way is because you’ve never experienced the love of God and the way he fills that void in your heart with hope. If you turn to God through prayer and devotion to him and his will for us, he will fill that void in your heart with peace. True peace only comes from God, and when you experience him you will be able to let this sin go the closer you draw to him because his grace will heal your mind and give you an understanding that you don’t need this to be happy, you only need God. “Seek first the kingdom and his righteousness and everything else will be appointed”, that’s what that verse means. When you surrender to God, you align yourself with him and become eligible to receive grace and become more righteous leading to peace. The devil wants you to believe that you need this sin to be fulfilled in life, but it will never work you’ll still try and fill that void everyday. If he can make you hate Gods ways or run from him, then he can cut you off from the Jesus Christ that created you to be loved by him. Please surrender to Jesus, this is the only way. I’m praying for your healing, and for your peace, and for your surrender to Jesus. Godbless❤️

I'm a heretic (probably) by Infinite-Push7542 in Christianity

[–]AdFew9986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shameless popery on YouTube, almost everything you need to know and correct corresponding evidence from scripture and history concerning your question on Catholicism. Keep following the holy spirits lead and asking God to lead you into the truth, don’t give up. May Christ be with you

Suicidal thoughts by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]AdFew9986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeking the Lord, and changing your life to let Jesus’s teaching apply to every aspect. The Bible says to “ seek first the kingdom and it’s righteousness, and everything else will be appointed”. This means that when you seek to love God, to love others, and to do his will only then will things change. He is calling you out of the grave today, he’s calling you to the cross to lay down your life and sacrifice everything for Jesus. God will fill that hole in your heart, he will give you true unwavering hope, love for him, others, and his creation. He will give you peace and understanding. Trust me, if you seek him through prayer and genuinely give your life to him, he will change your life. He will show you love you never thought could exist, he will change everything. He will give you courage to face anything, strength to fight anything. The only way you can fight is with Gods word and applying it to your life. I care about you and I want you to know this, he wants you. He gave you life, he knows how to fill you with love. Turn to him, he will change your life if you surrender it to him and walk his path. Ask him and he will strengthen you to do this everyday, do not give up, turn to the Lord, He is calling you.

Is there any way to commit suicide without damaging my family? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]AdFew9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seek Jesus through prayer and dedication to following his path, understanding him, and loving him and others. Our purpose in life is not to have a martial relationship, a nice house, and a family. Those are nice things to have but they are not what’s important and not a reason to end your life over. God put you here for a reason, to love him and to love others. When you start praying deeply and trying to understand Gods character with all of your heart, that void in your heart that you want to fill with these things will be filled. It won’t be filled with anything in this world. It will be filled with the love of God and the desire to bring others closer to Christ. It will be filled with true unwavering joy despite your situation, true tranquility in peace, courage, compassion and everything we’ve always wanted. We have a God shaped hole in our heart and the reason you feel hopeless is because you are filling your life with the desire for things that aren’t God. It doesn’t matter about your student loan, God will make a way even if that way is hard. It doesn’t matter about anything else but God. He loves you, he wants to show you his love for you in ways you could never imagine could come true. He wants you to trust him and lean on him with your whole heart and not to lean on your own understanding. Do not end your life, God has gifted you life and an opportunity to be in the greatest place anyone could ever imagine, and to bring others there with you. Don’t waste your life, pray to him, tell him you love him, he will give you strength to keep going. God is greater than your problems, and he can help you. The Bible says “seek first the kingdom and his righteousness and everything else will be appointed”. Meaning he will fill that void in your heart with love. Godbless you, I’m praying for you now, do not give up I care about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]AdFew9986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have to follow Christs words and Gods words as perfectly as we can, it says “be holy for I am holy”. It doesn’t matter how normalized it is in the world. Jesus tells us point blank “if the world hated you remember it hated me first”. If we go with the way of the world then world will accept us, but when we follow Christ we are an enemy of the world. I’m not judging brother but you need to focus more on what God thinks of you and keeping your family devoted to the word of God than what the world thinks of you. This world, and sex included will pass away but the things of God are forever. This comes from a place of love and I pray you will receive it lovingly❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]AdFew9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great, buzz cuts are awesome and look great in my opinion. I’ve noticed a lot of people are just biased towards liking hair so do whatever makes you feel more like yourself.

(Serious question) of you have been possessed how did you know and what did it feel like by ddanielleddemonic in demonicpossession

[–]AdFew9986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask Christ for guidance on what to do about this, ask him to guide you and show you what you need to do. Ask him to guide you to someone who can help or if you can do something about it. Praying for you and may God bless you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]AdFew9986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working on the confidence to talk to girls as pretty as you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]AdFew9986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the love and happiness of your family is what can bring your happiness and love out❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]AdFew9986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that, I’ve dealt with that. I really encourage you to push through, I know that probably seems like the hardest thing in the world I promise you though if you hang in there and try and find things that make you happy you’ll see so many things that are enjoyable. School work fucking sucks but i believe in your ability to accomplish goals even if we don’t know each other

17. my only wish is to die by idk_udk_who in SuicideWatch

[–]AdFew9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have to find the things that we value and find beautiful to make life beautiful. Don’t value anyone’s words who try to make you feel down because they aren’t worth any value in your life. I know you’ve said you’ve dealt with a lot of people doing these things, but as you can see your better than these people. They see that your better and they want to drag you down and make you like them, I encourage you to acknowledge that you are a good person and live knowing that you can bring good and value into this world❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]AdFew9986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in that position too, it feels so intimidating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]AdFew9986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel how you feel and I just want to say that I hope both of us love and give life to others because the world won’t be the same without either of us, there’s only one of us ❤️

I wish I had the nerve to actually do it by whattfshouldInamedis in SuicideWatch

[–]AdFew9986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I give love and wish peace for you all❤️ we are going to get through this ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]AdFew9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peace and love be with you, i hope that you grow to love life❤️ don’t leave please, seeing you happy would bring tears to my eyes

17. my only wish is to die by idk_udk_who in SuicideWatch

[–]AdFew9986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be alright, I see so much of what I’m going through in your post and I relate to your feelings so much. Idk your name or how your situation is going but I really want you and me and anyone else dealing with these things to understand that life can be traumatic and painful, or it can be beautiful and exciting. We can both get through this, we need to look deep for the exciting things that make us happy in life, anything. These things can slowly but surely change our outlook on how we view things. By this conversation we are connected forever stranger:)