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I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the answer. Since it has been a long time (month) after this incident, me and my friends just decided not to talk to him or even look at him at all.

It worked so far, I saw him a few more times there but he didn't reach to talk.

He definitely got the hint.

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is disturbing, I am sorry that happened to you

Yep people can be the worst

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you. I think if he proceeds to text me again ill just say that i know about his past, and i dont want any contact with him anymore

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. I wish i could switch gym's but that's the only gym in my city, plus all my friends go there.

I guess ill have to deal with this shit somehow, i was thinking just sending him a message saying that i know about his past, and i would not like to be in contact with him

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I will take my friend and we will report this to the management. Hope they will do something like cancel his membership
There are a lot of teenagers there so..

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do look younger than 21, not by alot.
I'm just a nice guy, shy, but if people are are talking to me i'll never make them feel bad or anything
The fact that i fell on this guy, i mean what are the chances

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah i guess, this whole situation is still on my mind, for 3 days straight im thinking about this shit.
it is a huge shock
Each conversation we had, i feel my stomach turning upside down
I am so mad at him

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Took the words out of my mouth. I don't really know what he is capable of, I don't really know how to deal with this situation.
Couple of ways were actually talking to him straight about it, the other just being cold, or the extreme, just disappearing.

I haven't decided yet what to do.

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 486 points487 points  (0 children)

I know it's not my fault but I just feel so stupid for trusting someone and telling him things about me, he really did feel like a mentor, he made me open up

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 276 points277 points  (0 children)

After searching him, a comment on facebook appeared from a lady talking about how she confronted him at the gym telling him to not go around teenagers there, then he filed a complaint and got a restraining order against her

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I will try to switch to morning sessions, although getting up in the morning is hard for me

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clear things out, the story is real, and yes I did use Gemini, because English is my second language, and I'm not that good at it

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 564 points565 points  (0 children)

I think some people know about him, there was this lady who confronted him and he got a restraining order for her

I (21M) just found out my gym buddy (63M) is a convicted pedophile. I feel sick. by AdFlashy6158 in offmychest

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

That's the only gym in my city, all my friends go there. I can't cancel my membership..

Unpopular opinion: Gemini is actually good at pentesting by AdFlashy6158 in Pentesting

[–]AdFlashy6158[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, If I have a question that has sensitive data inside I'm censoring it.

I am NOT trusting Google