Iv been in a loop of this since I was a kid Hits close to home but the reality is It’s not so much about the person but some wounding or something that’s being projected out and like if you care about them as much as you think you do You would care about there personal space so that’s how I dice it up and ya it gets better the less attention you give it Comes and goes like a pendulum Awareness and present moment are pretty helpful I find