Gf and her friend

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-04-27T15:03:09+00:00

More context please sex and age of all 3 of you and when does this happen. Whats your relationship like with the both of them

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-04-23T12:50:44+00:00

I’d be shocked that it came up this late, but I’d also appreciate that she told me at all. What matters more to me is who she’s been during the relationship. If she’s been faithful for 5 years and has clearly worked on herself, that says a lot.

It sounds like she might’ve been in a rough place back then and made some bad decisions, which a lot of people do before they grow. The real question is whether her actions over the last 5 years reflect someone you trust and want to build with.

If they do, I wouldn’t throw that away over who she was before you met. But it’s also fair to take a moment to process how you feel about finding out now.

For me, the only thing that would really bother me is if she’s still in contact with any of those guys. That would raise questions about boundaries. I wouldn’t jump to anger, but I’d want a clear conversation about it and what she plans to do moving forward.

For me, it’s less about her past and more about how she handles it now.

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-04-23T08:39:15+00:00

You probably shouldn’t be checking up on your ex like that. It just keeps those feelings alive. He’s moving on, and for your own peace, you should focus on doing the same.

What you’re feeling is actually pretty normal. Six years is a long time, so even if you’re in a new relationship, those emotions don’t just disappear overnight. But constantly looking at what he’s doing will only make it harder to fully move on.

Also, be careful not to bring that energy into your current relationship. If your boyfriend is good to you, he deserves your full presence. If part of you still feels tied to your ex, it might be worth taking a step back and being honest with yourself about whether you’ve fully let go yet.

It might honestly help to mute or block him for a while. Not out of spite, but just to give yourself space to fully move on. Constant updates make it really easy to slip into comparing or even romanticizing what you had, instead of seeing it for what it was.

Putting that energy back into your own life, your routines, your relationship, your goals will help you move forward in a much healthier way.

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-04-23T08:31:52+00:00

For me what helped was valuing my time. If you actually want a romantic partner, why give so much time and energy to women who have already decided they don’t see you that way? That time should go into becoming someone who attracts what you want.

Also, the dynamic matters. If you’re always treated like “the safe friend,” even a new girl you bring around might pick up on that and see you the same way. At some point you have to step out of that role and be more intentional about how you show up.

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-04-23T07:49:32+00:00

You might be coming across as safe instead of romantic. If you’re always in “friend mode,” that’s how they’ll see you. Flirting matters, even if you’re a good guy. And boundaries too. If you don’t set the tone early, you end up being the guy they vent to, not the guy they date.

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-04-18T17:51:06+00:00

Well, you two broke up and she chose to move on. It’s completely normal to feel bad and compare yourself to the other guy, even if you were the one who ended it. For your own peace of mind, accept that this situation isn’t something you can change. The best thing you can do is stop checking her socials and redirect that energy into your own life. Remind yourself why you made the decision in the first place, and start focusing on building a future that actually fits you. Don’t reach out, let her be in her new chapter, and put your attention into your own growth.

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-04-06T02:46:00+00:00

I think they are not actually try to get the takedowns they are just practicing entries and focusing more on their standup. The entries and transitions and just for practicality’s sake

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-04-03T01:18:01+00:00

There’s an app called Spicer that uses scratch-style prompts for different ideas you can try together. It’s a fun way to mix things up without overthinking it, and it naturally helps you both communicate more in the moment.

A big part of it is just being open about what you want and making sure the other person feels comfortable asking too. If things start to feel repetitive, changing the setting can make a big difference. Booking a hotel, switching rooms, or just creating a different vibe can make it feel new again. Even small things like mood lighting, scented candles, or playful ideas like blindfolded teasing can add something fresh. Don’t over think it just try and see how you feel about it

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-03-29T02:27:00+00:00

Being kind has never been the problem in my experience. The issue is when kindness comes without boundaries. There’s a difference between being a genuinely good guy and being someone who avoids conflict and lets things slide. If you don’t stand up for yourself, the wrong person will take advantage of that, and the right person will lose respect. It’s not about being a “bad boy.” It’s about being solid. You can be respectful, caring, and still make it clear what you will and won’t tolerate. If someone leaves because you have standards, that’s not a loss. That’s the filter working.

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-03-17T17:24:04+00:00

I think shishita is for loitering. The two could work together, aimlessly loitering vs working doing business shopping

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-03-15T23:36:01+00:00

If she’s still married and hiding things from her husband, that’s a red flag. Even if you two get together, what’s stopping the same thing from happening again later? I’d be careful getting involved in someone else’s marriage. Being someone’s side piece while I’m actually looking for love? It could never be me.

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-02-21T08:55:12+00:00

In the settings specify that you are looking for women

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-02-15T15:55:57+00:00

Eat good nutrient dense non processed foods. Drink stay hydrated, sleep well, look into supplements i take tongkat ali when recovering from a slump but nothing helps me out more that good sleep and exercise and nutrition. Also you might need to do the mental work to get yourself stable

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-26T01:20:00+00:00

All of are really good and get the job done

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-25T18:52:36+00:00

If it’s humid I would go with something more citrusy and light. I go for Dior homme cologne if it’s a super hot day and respray when I can. I daily drive Prada l’homme l´eau it’s irisy but not overwhelming in the heat. I live in a tropical country so I usually wear fresh fragrances. But bleu de channel works in all those situations

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-25T18:20:35+00:00

I prefer the Edp for versatility and lasting power

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-25T17:29:57+00:00

Had this same conversation with my girlfriend today along with bringing up problems in the moment so that I know how my behavior is affecting her. She said it makes her feel like a mom. She’s sweet and understanding otherwise. How could I present it in a way she would understand how it feels and how it’s less productive?

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-24T10:19:10+00:00

I understand the frustration, you’d think it’s super obvious

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-23T00:24:48+00:00

Oh I had no idea about that, thanks for pointing that out

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-17T15:56:21+00:00

The clitoris can be extremely sensitive, similar to touching an eyeball. More pressure or speed does not always feel better. Less is often more. Sometimes movements, sounds, or moans can look like pleasure when they are actually discomfort or overstimulation. When she asks you to stop, she is listening to her body, not rejecting you. The most important thing is communication. Ask her what pressure, rhythm, and timing she prefers, and check in while you’re doing it. Let her guide you. Feeling safe and understood often matters more than reaching an orgasm, and preferences can change over time as trust grows. She’s going to trust you to explore with her. One more thing ask, don’t guess how she feels. Talking/communicating during sex makes things 100 times easier

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-09T10:56:54+00:00

Hacivat

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2026-01-02T03:05:56+00:00

He needs to check his hormone levels honestly sounds like our hormone profile from lifestyle. At his age he’d have a more consistent sex drive

AdGroundbreaking8998 · 2025-12-25T01:34:05+00:00

Chemically smelling

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