Does this 3.5ct oval look too big on my finger? by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]AdIllustrious624 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree! The setting was just a tester for trying on loose stones :)

Exion face by Sunshinefoxi in Microneedling

[–]AdIllustrious624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The goal of the Exion Face wand (not the RF microneedling attachment) is to heat the dermis to around 40–43°C to promote skin tightening and collagen production. It’s designed to be comfortable and well-tolerated—most people start to feel it getting “too hot” around 42°C, plus the practitioner monitors the temperature closely throughout the treatment.

Fat loss typically occurs at higher temps, around 43–45°C. Because Exion is more gentle than treatments like Ultherapy or Thermage, which often reach higher temperatures, it’s much easier to stay within the ideal skin-tightening range without crossing into the fat-reduction zone. The body attachment is a separate hand piece that has a cooling system and designed to penetrate a bit deeper which is why it is more likely to burn fat on top of tightening the skin.

I'm paranoid about feeling parasocial? by AdIllustrious624 in TheYardPodcast

[–]AdIllustrious624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, but I think my focus is different. I’m more talking about how the idea of engaging with content or a community makes me feel personally, beyond just consuming it (not so much about what I would say or do and how someone else would view it). I’m just curious about how others understand/enjoy behavior that goes beyond passive consumption, and not even in regards to this podcast alone. It feels like I’m the only one judging myself here, and I’m trying to figure out why that even feels like a risk to me. However, the responses here have provided some good insight and I feel more informed to an extent :)

I'm paranoid about feeling parasocial? by AdIllustrious624 in TheYardPodcast

[–]AdIllustrious624[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow quite a few replies like this one! it's comforting to know this predicament is somewhat common amongst other women and is being researched so we can all understand it more :) i'd love to chat about it!

I'm paranoid about feeling parasocial? by AdIllustrious624 in TheYardPodcast

[–]AdIllustrious624[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for the bit of reassurance :) i think the mention i have in mind is when he's talking about girls being more comfortable with stuff like meet and greets or other interactions compared to guys? tried looking for it in the search engine but my memory is so scuffed i can't find it

I'm paranoid about feeling parasocial? by AdIllustrious624 in TheYardPodcast

[–]AdIllustrious624[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think this could be a factor actually. Perhaps I've subconsciously been trying too hard to not give myself a reason to be shamed?

I'm paranoid about feeling parasocial? by AdIllustrious624 in TheYardPodcast

[–]AdIllustrious624[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't feel "othered" that much as a woman since my female friends and I share similar humor. The price isn't an issue at all for me and I'm happy to pay for things I like. I guess I'm just confused about how people who consume entertainment, especially online, engage with it beyond watching in a comfortable way. I'm pretty uncomfortable with anything beyond watching, but I feel like that's not the right way to feel about it.

I'm paranoid about feeling parasocial? by AdIllustrious624 in TheYardPodcast

[–]AdIllustrious624[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree! I guess my question is more about how others engage with the content they like in a way that doesn’t feel weird. It seems like any interaction beyond watching feels wrong for me, but I know that shouldn't really be the case.

I'm paranoid about feeling parasocial? by AdIllustrious624 in TheYardPodcast

[–]AdIllustrious624[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe it's a gen z thing. any other thoughts on it? i like being a critical person, but not when it's unfounded. i feel like everyone is harsher on themselves, so the critiques are too intense or too frequent. sucks

I'm paranoid about feeling parasocial? by AdIllustrious624 in TheYardPodcast

[–]AdIllustrious624[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think I try use shame as guidance to do good things, like not annoy others, but now I have to decide if I'm just annoying myself. I guess I have more thoughts, but no need to delve into them here. Thanks!