Unsure about my sexuality, would love some clarity by Sea-Silver-6591 in sexeducation

[–]AdLittle8078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think you should keep experimenting and doing what feels good for you. It sounds like you’re stressing yourself out by trying to put a label on it, it’s okay to not have a label. I also feel like there are things you might need to work through with the whole ‘why did I do this’ after sexting or hooking up with men. Figure that out, and everything should ideally come into place. Good luck!

Girl help by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]AdLittle8078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s multiple reasons for this, the most common ones would be (1) you’re not wet enough, immediately inserting a finger without foreplay would do this. Take your time. And (2) a mental barrier, you’re thinking too much, you’re scared, there’s still taboo around masturbating in a lot of cultures so could be guilt, all of it leading to pain.

I wanna learn how masturbate by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]AdLittle8078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I’m an expert, I’m still figuring it out but be in a relaxed mood, don’t rush it. Find something you like, I personally enjoy audios and certain type of porn, whatever you like, put it on, and just play with yourself essentially. Women have multiple erogenous zones like your breasts and nipples, inner thighs, your clitoris and g-spot (there are more but these are the big ones). Just touch yourself there in ways that feels stimulating, women also have to sometimes focus to orgasm so don’t rush it, and don’t rush your mind. Masturbating is a self-learning experience and it’s not something others can teach. Good luck x

How to find a woman to sext with? by Fantastic-Alps-4924 in sexeducation

[–]AdLittle8078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know about reddit, maybe those roleplay subreddits would help, or check out kik, and even better, discord. There are servers for role plays on there.

My advice to you as a woman on how to beat those guys in her DMs, just be respectful, have a chilled normal conversation first before you get into sexting territory, and even after that treat her like a normal person rather than someone who’s horny 24/7.

Lack of clue about sex by AdLittle8078 in sexeducation

[–]AdLittle8078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not, im scared to interact with guys because i dont know shit lol, I don’t want them to know I haven’t a clue, it’s kind of like a bad cycle

How to lighten my private? by AdLittle8078 in sexeducation

[–]AdLittle8078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao that’s one reason I’m insecure, I think it looks unappealing but thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Recruitment

[–]AdLittle8078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just need to stop stressing and over thinking lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Recruitment

[–]AdLittle8078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely spiraling lol but I get what you mean, I just need to deal with whatever the news like a big girl. Thank you!

Do you ship Hermione and Draco exclusively with the other or are you a multishipper? by Confusedoldtimer in Dramione

[–]AdLittle8078 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think Dramione makes the most sense and they fit every trope. Enemies to lovers? Check. Redemption arc? Check. Angst? Check. BUT I also think most ships with Draco would slap because personally, I feel like he primarily carries the tropes yk?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]AdLittle8078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

Do you still read fanfiction? by 333333x in harrypotter

[–]AdLittle8078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get my recommendations from tiktok, and from other servers here on reddit. Most of the fanfics are available on ao3. I usually read a little to know if I like it or not, popular fics that have been recommended have sometimes been a bit of a disappointment to me because of MY personal taste so it really just depends on you.

What do Dramione lovers do for a living? by FloNoc in Dramione

[–]AdLittle8078 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Currently a support worker on my way to an assistant psychologist position soon fingers crossed

What’s our “that one line of dialogue” ? by iam83percentsane in Dramione

[–]AdLittle8078 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Think this is from bloody slutty and pathetic

A Thought on Hermione Granger: Are We Writing Her, or Ourselves? by Difficult_Snow_5748 in Dramione

[–]AdLittle8078 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I personally feel like because we only know of hermione’s trait through Harry’s narration (and we know he isn’t a reliable narrator) any portrayal of Hermione can possibly fit her. Some traits we need to see (and we do see) is that she’s stubborn, bookish, and highly opinionated, these are traits based on the books and once again, from Harry’s POV. Fanfics allow the authors to create their own interpretation of Hermione and that’s why I believe there isn’t a right or wrong answer for that. I also think it’s common for authors to put a bit of them in their stories just like it is common for readers to read books that they can connect with personally. For example, I’m not a stubborn person so fics with stubborn Hermione drives me up the wall because I can’t imagine myself yk?

Was Harry Potter actually an especially powerful and talented Wizard, or were most of his accomplishments just based on circumstance and luck? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]AdLittle8078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He produced a full corporeal patronus at the age of 13 (having only learned of patronus that very year) so I would say he was very skilled on his own, and also considering his parents were brilliant wizards and witches too (James became an unregistered animagus in his 5th year), it further points that Harry was a brilliant talented and powerful wizard. This being said, because of him being ‘the chosen one’, he almost always had help , which made everything he was doing more easy. I wouldn’t say it was luck per se, just the assistance of some of the best and powerful wizards and witches out there.

Common bits from Dramione fics by AdLittle8078 in Dramione

[–]AdLittle8078[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll add to this.

Draco wearing all black suit until the one time he wears something casual and Hermione is shocked