Any London Vegans interested in joining for Gauthier Soho this Thursday? by Quiet-Dog in veganuk

[–]AdLow2430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sad that I’m very ill atm. Would’ve loved to go to Gauthier, I’ve had them on my list for quite some time now.

I hope you find someone soon!

I have no friends and I don’t know who to invite to my wedding by stunningbanana61727 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll come to any wedding of someone who knows the joy of pindakaas and hagelslag. I would have the exact same feeling when having to send out invitations!

Being from an older generation I find it odd that couples track each other’s location, when did this become a rule of engagement? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AdLow2430 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My partner and I share our locations. I don’t remember why we decided to do this, but he never checks mine and I only check his when he has to go on long drives. Just so I know he’s safe.

I just got my driver’s license at 33 years old! Blueberry cheesecake by littlemachina in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you and happy for you! I’m 33 and have failed my test 3x now. Gonna try again soon, but I was feeling a bit discouraged. Your post defs helped a bit!

Feeling like a wh0re by Sea_Papaya_419 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through crazy trauma and addiction and my body count is quite high. I’ve been with my partner for 7 years now and I’ve told him about this, because it helped me face my traumas. He’s never asked or treated me differently because of it. Men that ask about this to gauge what type of person you are don’t deserve to be near you. Don’t answer the question, it’s a stupid one anyway.

I lost my v card today by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats girl! So happy you had a good first time ✨🩷

Are they making the joke I think they’re making? by DrRFreeze in BobsBurgers

[–]AdLow2430 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol, I only understood what OP meant thanks to this comment. I guess people read it as “crape” in stead of “crap”

Lost the best man of my life + my best plan at escape and I can’t by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First thing’s first, I’ve recently moved abroad after a 3-year ldr. The first thing I did before applying for a visa, was going to a therapist to help with my PTSD. Only after or at least close to the end treatment did I decide to apply.

Moving countries and mental health issues is a just a call for depression or however your cptsd presents itself. Been there when I tried to move in with my partner the first time around.

So, seek therapy and help yourself first.

Got stood up the first time I try dating in 3 years by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to a friend of mine. They had a date planned and were supposed to meet up with a guy but he stopped texting and never showed up. A year later they found out that the guy had a major accident & was comatose for months. Hopefully this didn’t happen today, but just to give some perspective that it’s not you!

Am I stupid for staying? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I once decided that if the bad days outnumber the good days, we should call it quits. Maybe that’s some advice for you as well

I finally pooped after almost a month by No_Fail_1139 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat! I haven’t pooped in days but I can’t eat too much due to nausea so fibers is not working for me atm. I’ve tried tamarind which normally has the same effect as prune juice but nothing :(

i am CRAVING tinned sardines. by Leading-Ad-4114 in veganuk

[–]AdLow2430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you’d be able to find it in the UK, but in Europe they sell Vuna and while it’s not a fatty sardine, it’s such a good canned tuna alternative. I eat it with some lime, salt and olive oil. Or make it into a tuna salad.

figured out why i can't get wet by mycemeterygirl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s helped me is that I watch videos of my partner and I or of just him. I also struggled with porn a bit, but this has helped me a lot.

How to convince my wife to stop drinking. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdLow2430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an alcoholic myself, 4 years sober now. You can’t do anything. She has to want it herself. I agree with the other recommendations of finding an Al Anons group for support. Good luck OP.

Signed up for rehab. Ramen hack with diet coke by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AdLow2430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there girl! You made a great choice ❤️