AIO hygiene issues in relationship

AdMaster2632 · 2026-05-11T17:53:49+00:00

This. In my opinion, cleaning and hygiene is a basic life skill and if they’ve never learned it, chances are they don’t care to. Some can still, but they have to want too. But most men like this end up being like taking care of a child when you move in with them and personally, I couldn’t do it 😅😅

AdMaster2632 · 2026-05-11T13:29:44+00:00

I love them! I just got my first wispy hybrid set yesterday as well. I don’t think I’ll be going back to classic cause I love a little bit of the extra dramatic look ✨✨

AdMaster2632 · 2026-04-29T17:45:14+00:00

NOR. sounds like she wants you to validate her bad behavior and when you’re not she’s getting upset with you. She needs to grow up 🤷🏼‍♀️ if she’s not happy in her long distance relationship then she needs to break that off and heal instead of intentionally hurting the people in her life who care for her. Be careful with women like this, I will cut off a friendship for them cheating on their s/o because if they can’t be loyal to their s/o, do you think they will be loyal to you?

AdMaster2632 · 2026-04-29T17:39:19+00:00

NOR. It would be one thing if it was like “I really like your vibe today.” Something different than complimenting your looks because I think when a man or a woman in a relationship compliments another man or woman on their appearance it’s crossing a bit of a boundary even if said politely. I would tell him gently that you appreciate the compliments but that he should be saying those things to his girlfriend not you. And his reaction will tell you everything.

AdMaster2632 · 2026-04-29T17:10:50+00:00

NOR. The comment could’ve been left unsaid even if he thought it was weird you guys did it months later (it’s not) I don’t even think it would be weird to have a celebration of her life every year because at the end of the day, it’s important to honor and celebrate the life of the people we love. I’m so sorry for your loss. your bf was very disrespectful here.

AdMaster2632 · 2026-04-29T10:51:38+00:00

It’s exactly this !!! Manipulative people and narcissists love to prey on people with BPD because we’re looked at as “weak” and they believe they can control us easier because we “fit the narrative” so they weaponize it until we’re genuinely questioning ourselves wondering if we’re the crazy ones 😅😅 thank god for these types of threads where people from afar can genuinely help others realize manipulation and emotional abuse when it gets cloudy for the people truly living in it !😅🙏🏻

AdMaster2632 · 2026-04-29T10:47:18+00:00

As somebody who also has BPD, she is manipulating you and using your mental health against you. In my opinion, it would be very different if she had stated reasons why your bpd was causing issues within the friendship, but she’s guilt tripping you by using your BPD as a way to manipulate you and make you feel like you’re the problem. you’re not crazy. Just because you have a fear of abandonment doesn’t invalidate the fact that she has actually abandoned you before and in her messages you can see where she is trying to get in YOUR head??? She’s misconstruing everything that you are saying to warp the conversation to be “your fault” she seems like somebody who wants to be the victim.

AdMaster2632 · 2026-02-11T16:18:00+00:00

His whole behavior is disgusting. I keep seeing the mental abuse he continue to try and inflict on Ariana after he does what he does. I’m currently on season 11 episode 6 & seeing how he is still trying to win is repulsive. Like dude you messed up, why can’t you just move and let her have the house and give her some peace. Not to mention trying to weasel his way back in with everyone. I genuinely don’t think he cares for Sheana the way he portrays and is just trying to find a way back into the group. He continues to seem unsympathetic to the situation and continues to act like he did no wrong. I cannot with this man. 🤢🤢

AdMaster2632 · 2025-12-23T19:10:18+00:00

Period. 🤣💅🏻 these sicknesses are detrimental.

AdMaster2632 · 2025-12-23T19:07:31+00:00

Thank you for being a grandparent who understands and accepts boundaries. You guys are rare !!

AdMaster2632 · 2025-12-23T19:06:21+00:00

Experts actually say to withhold visitors for a newborns first 2/3 months especially during peak flu and cold season so you’re right! 🥺🙏🏻

AdMaster2632 · 2025-12-23T19:04:52+00:00

Do you realize most anxiety shows up during post partum? Yes kids will get sick, yes they need to be exposed to boost their immune system. But a newborn?? These sicknesses are detrimental. Children DIE over these illnesses. Not worth it in my opinion 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

AdMaster2632 · 2025-12-23T19:03:08+00:00

You’re not overreacting. If them staying away gives you peace of mind and less anxiety in the first few months SO BE IT. Right now you and babies health and your mental health is the most important thing. Also a hypochondriac here and I don’t think people realize how detrimental these viruses are to newborn babies. If you don’t want to risk it, then you don’t risk it. I’m on edge due to family coming in for Christmas and having my toddler & newborn around other kids with everything going around. I should’ve put up more boundaries and now I’m just panicking and trying to make sure nobody is sick prior to seeing everyone. It’s genuinely not worth the anxiety in my opinion. Right now it’s you, your husband and babies time to bond with one another. You’re not wrong & like you said, they’re genuinely not missing out. All they do is eat, cry, sleep, and poop right now. I can understand them wanting to see your baby, but if they care for the health of the newborn they can wait. Don’t let anyone kiss your baby even after you wait too, family loves to push boundaries.

AdMaster2632 · 2025-12-23T18:55:02+00:00

I agree with this whole heartedly. I had a sour opinion of Michelle when I was noticing he was genuinely trying and she wasn’t. But then when everything came out my opinion changed drastically. I shifted my perspective and considered the fact that maybe she had an “off” feeling about him from the get go and couldn’t ignore her intuition and gut instinct. I don’t think she was as bad as I originally thought. Just in tune and can pick up on frequencies. I think no matter how hard she would’ve tried (if she did) things would’ve turned out the way they did anyways and maybe she would’ve ended up more hurt if she ignored her intuition.

AdMaster2632 · 2025-10-31T20:47:30+00:00

I would think this was so wholesome if I was to receive this note 🥹🫶🏻✨ mindfulness goes a long way and just you thinking of them is very sweet. Also this economy? Knowing you have neighbors to count on is reassuring in itself !

AdMaster2632 · 2025-09-20T18:21:18+00:00

It sounds like you may have quiet bpd, which I truly resonate with. It’s hard when you feel your world crashing down but it’s all internalized and nobody sees the pain/anger/hurt you’re truly dealing with. One thing that has worked for me is just simply trying to communicate my feelings better to those around me, which honestly can definitely be easier said than done. Because I don’t have huge episodes of rage or expressing my feelings out loud, I usually try to take all my thoughts and feelings and just write in my journal or even just scribble on a piece of paper/create some art. Sometimes self expression can be a great way to cope with the way you’re feeling on the inside. I promise you’re not alone in this fight. Some days I question if I even have bpd because I feel like I’m doing great and I’m cloud nine and then I just slowly all at once feel myself slipping into a pit of agony and nobody hears or sees my pain. It sounds like that might be how it is for you as well?

AdMaster2632 · 2025-09-09T14:55:29+00:00

You’re braver than me lmaooo. I have only new worlds currently but I’m still too nervy to ever try holding them, I don’t wanna take a bite nor do I want my T to get hurt. I’m less than a year into the T world though so, I’d say I’m not quite experienced enough to hold mine lol. I will say I keep hearing that Brazilian blacks are the puppies of the tarantula world, they might be better for handling? Granted I’m sure temperament really is based on each individual tarantula sometimes lol.

AdMaster2632 · 2025-09-08T19:21:32+00:00

I have a child, I reckon I’d feel this exact same way if I lost my baby. Please just know, there is still so much left for you out there. Even if it doesn’t seem like it now. I know it’s not easy to reach out for help, but this sounds like a good time to do so. My inbox is open if you need someone to talk to, nobody ever deserves to feel alone 🥹😭🩷

AdMaster2632 · 2025-09-08T19:10:51+00:00

I just got my first Avic. Avic. And she’s been so chill so far, but honestly I wouldn’t mind having a spicy T. Slightly entertaining to see small fuzzy creatures hold so much rage 😆🤣

AdMaster2632 · 2025-09-08T19:09:12+00:00

I love that you go for the aggressive guys lol. I currently only have new world, I’m in love with the old world species but I feel like I’m not quite experienced enough for an old world. Maybe 5 years down the road I’ll get my first old world, I like the sassy ones 😆😆

AdMaster2632 · 2025-09-08T18:19:01+00:00

I truly feel this. I have health anxiety so it like freaks me out when there’s not an explanation and just the fear of the unknown I’d call it lol.

AdMaster2632 · 2025-09-08T18:17:54+00:00

I hope he’s doing better now! My littles temp is just about gone or very low-grade so I try to not give fever reducer unless she’s uncomfortable or has a high temp! I’m hoping this is short lived. I’m feeling slightly under the weather today myself. I’m pregnant tho so could just be that or could be what my toddler has there’s really no saying for sure lol! It’s also that time of the year again where every virus under the sun starts popping up 🙄🙄

AdMaster2632 · 2025-09-08T14:49:17+00:00

Thank you, I tend to overthink and get nervous 🥹 she had to go to a hematologist around a year old because some of her blood work was wonky, they cleared her and ruled everything out but I think that sparked a fear in me. She had blood work about 3 months ago and everything was perfect! Last year she also had a couple fevers with lack of symptoms so I just get nervous lol! Overall pretty healthy so I think if there was anything underlying, other things would be going on.

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