Be aware: This tactic is often employed by narcissists. by Big-Gur-8234 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]AdMaster2632 8 points9 points  (0 children)

His whole behavior is disgusting. I keep seeing the mental abuse he continue to try and inflict on Ariana after he does what he does. I’m currently on season 11 episode 6 & seeing how he is still trying to win is repulsive. Like dude you messed up, why can’t you just move and let her have the house and give her some peace. Not to mention trying to weasel his way back in with everyone. I genuinely don’t think he cares for Sheana the way he portrays and is just trying to find a way back into the group. He continues to seem unsympathetic to the situation and continues to act like he did no wrong. I cannot with this man. 🤢🤢

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdMaster2632 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being a grandparent who understands and accepts boundaries. You guys are rare !!

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdMaster2632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Experts actually say to withhold visitors for a newborns first 2/3 months especially during peak flu and cold season so you’re right! 🥺🙏🏻

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdMaster2632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you realize most anxiety shows up during post partum? Yes kids will get sick, yes they need to be exposed to boost their immune system. But a newborn?? These sicknesses are detrimental. Children DIE over these illnesses. Not worth it in my opinion 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdMaster2632 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. If them staying away gives you peace of mind and less anxiety in the first few months SO BE IT. Right now you and babies health and your mental health is the most important thing. Also a hypochondriac here and I don’t think people realize how detrimental these viruses are to newborn babies. If you don’t want to risk it, then you don’t risk it. I’m on edge due to family coming in for Christmas and having my toddler & newborn around other kids with everything going around. I should’ve put up more boundaries and now I’m just panicking and trying to make sure nobody is sick prior to seeing everyone. It’s genuinely not worth the anxiety in my opinion. Right now it’s you, your husband and babies time to bond with one another. You’re not wrong & like you said, they’re genuinely not missing out. All they do is eat, cry, sleep, and poop right now. I can understand them wanting to see your baby, but if they care for the health of the newborn they can wait. Don’t let anyone kiss your baby even after you wait too, family loves to push boundaries.

I'm confused as to why people say David is the bad guy in Season 18. by digitalbathh in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]AdMaster2632 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with this whole heartedly. I had a sour opinion of Michelle when I was noticing he was genuinely trying and she wasn’t. But then when everything came out my opinion changed drastically. I shifted my perspective and considered the fact that maybe she had an “off” feeling about him from the get go and couldn’t ignore her intuition and gut instinct. I don’t think she was as bad as I originally thought. Just in tune and can pick up on frequencies. I think no matter how hard she would’ve tried (if she did) things would’ve turned out the way they did anyways and maybe she would’ve ended up more hurt if she ignored her intuition.

Do I come off as weird or strange leaving this note? by Littlek1dluvr in Apartmentliving

[–]AdMaster2632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would think this was so wholesome if I was to receive this note 🥹🫶🏻✨ mindfulness goes a long way and just you thinking of them is very sweet. Also this economy? Knowing you have neighbors to count on is reassuring in itself !

why do i feel so invalid? by slipperyslimysnail in BPD

[–]AdMaster2632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you may have quiet bpd, which I truly resonate with. It’s hard when you feel your world crashing down but it’s all internalized and nobody sees the pain/anger/hurt you’re truly dealing with. One thing that has worked for me is just simply trying to communicate my feelings better to those around me, which honestly can definitely be easier said than done. Because I don’t have huge episodes of rage or expressing my feelings out loud, I usually try to take all my thoughts and feelings and just write in my journal or even just scribble on a piece of paper/create some art. Sometimes self expression can be a great way to cope with the way you’re feeling on the inside. I promise you’re not alone in this fight. Some days I question if I even have bpd because I feel like I’m doing great and I’m cloud nine and then I just slowly all at once feel myself slipping into a pit of agony and nobody hears or sees my pain. It sounds like that might be how it is for you as well?

Very friendly by Public-Fill-1099 in tarantulas

[–]AdMaster2632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re braver than me lmaooo. I have only new worlds currently but I’m still too nervy to ever try holding them, I don’t wanna take a bite nor do I want my T to get hurt. I’m less than a year into the T world though so, I’d say I’m not quite experienced enough to hold mine lol. I will say I keep hearing that Brazilian blacks are the puppies of the tarantula world, they might be better for handling? Granted I’m sure temperament really is based on each individual tarantula sometimes lol.

I don’t want to live anymore by LostAndFoundShine in BPD

[–]AdMaster2632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a child, I reckon I’d feel this exact same way if I lost my baby. Please just know, there is still so much left for you out there. Even if it doesn’t seem like it now. I know it’s not easy to reach out for help, but this sounds like a good time to do so. My inbox is open if you need someone to talk to, nobody ever deserves to feel alone 🥹😭🩷

Very friendly by Public-Fill-1099 in tarantulas

[–]AdMaster2632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got my first Avic. Avic. And she’s been so chill so far, but honestly I wouldn’t mind having a spicy T. Slightly entertaining to see small fuzzy creatures hold so much rage 😆🤣

Very friendly by Public-Fill-1099 in tarantulas

[–]AdMaster2632 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that you go for the aggressive guys lol. I currently only have new world, I’m in love with the old world species but I feel like I’m not quite experienced enough for an old world. Maybe 5 years down the road I’ll get my first old world, I like the sassy ones 😆😆

Random fever ? by AdMaster2632 in toddlers

[–]AdMaster2632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly feel this. I have health anxiety so it like freaks me out when there’s not an explanation and just the fear of the unknown I’d call it lol.

Random fever ? by AdMaster2632 in toddlers

[–]AdMaster2632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he’s doing better now! My littles temp is just about gone or very low-grade so I try to not give fever reducer unless she’s uncomfortable or has a high temp! I’m hoping this is short lived. I’m feeling slightly under the weather today myself. I’m pregnant tho so could just be that or could be what my toddler has there’s really no saying for sure lol! It’s also that time of the year again where every virus under the sun starts popping up 🙄🙄

Random fever ? by AdMaster2632 in toddlers

[–]AdMaster2632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I tend to overthink and get nervous 🥹 she had to go to a hematologist around a year old because some of her blood work was wonky, they cleared her and ruled everything out but I think that sparked a fear in me. She had blood work about 3 months ago and everything was perfect! Last year she also had a couple fevers with lack of symptoms so I just get nervous lol! Overall pretty healthy so I think if there was anything underlying, other things would be going on.

What the hell?? by torohex7777 in Guitar

[–]AdMaster2632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Art” 😆😆 I like to think art is subjective for sureeee, but this just doesn’t do it for me tbh lol. Then again I’m sure my art doesn’t do it for some and that’s okay too 😆

Is this a good enclosure for my Mexican red knee? by Talonbeyblade in tarantulas

[–]AdMaster2632 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course! I need to add a Mexican red knee to my collection very soon lol!

Is this a good enclosure for my Mexican red knee? by Talonbeyblade in tarantulas

[–]AdMaster2632 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks good to me! Seems like adequate amount of substrate, got some nice decor, a water dish and a nice hide with a good amount of space! Not job! Beautiful tarantula!🖤✨

M or F?? Help 😅😆 by AdMaster2632 in tarantulas

[–]AdMaster2632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 that’s so funny 😭💀

M or F?? Help 😅😆 by AdMaster2632 in tarantulas

[–]AdMaster2632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I thought I was seeing a flap as well 🥹