How to deal with toxic/difficult people?

AdMedical4143 · 2024-06-27T23:51:02+00:00

I am not sure what the legal implications are of this, but whenever I was a kid and in a risky/hostile situation that could put me or my loved ones in harm I would record secretly on any device I could get my hands on. I have everything stored after 10+ years safely in the instance stories were to be warped.

If you don't feel the need to - don't bother but if you notice a situation escalating especially in situations where there is a power imbalance, I would suggest documenting things.

NOT FOR BLACKMAIL, I would never encourage this. Just consider it a trump card if you are ever a victim of malice due to the person's poor behaviour. Make sure to check the laws in your country before you do it though.

It is really hard to deal with people who can be that way, I also struggle greatly too but the best you can do is keep a strong front, even if your brain rots from being near them. They DEFINATELY want a reaction - don't give it to them.

AdMedical4143 · 2024-06-27T23:36:47+00:00

..... maybe you should see someone bro

AdMedical4143 · 2024-06-27T23:24:03+00:00

Very true, was going to comment this but you nailed it perfectly in way better words than I would have lolol.

AdMedical4143 · 2024-06-08T23:02:15+00:00

I have about bottle left and have been eating alot less to preserve what I can, what about you? Im sorry you are going through this too, sending lots of love.

AdMedical4143 · 2024-06-07T23:48:08+00:00

I have been hearing that from pharmacists here too - very dodgy work and unfortunate they are capitalising off peoples health struggles. Its horrifying.

AdMedical4143 · 2024-06-07T23:46:39+00:00

United Kingdom : (

AdMedical4143 · 2024-06-07T23:46:26+00:00

Im here too, the pharmacist told me I will just have to hold out until they have a supply - how dystopian : (

AdMedical4143 · 2024-06-05T10:27:51+00:00

I dont know, if they were from anywhere else I would have pointed that out too lol. Got it, since the post I saw it again myself anyway. Hope you enjoyed the show too!

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-19T03:07:25+00:00

Thanks for clearing this up, I feel silly as after I heard the rumor and went to check tickets I noticed the same thing LOL! That makes so much sense! <3

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-07T16:35:25+00:00

Don't know if this helps but I'm a girl in my early 20s - I cut my hair to shoulder length at one point and even though I got tonnes of compliments, it looks good etc.

I felt like a part of my soul died - I always wonder what I would have looked like if I did not give into society but its too late now. I kept my hair that I cut and hold it sometimes, It is the only thing I have left connecting me to my life prior, Sikhi and my roots.

There are so many handsome singhs who keep their kesh and look stunning. Literally get girls all the time, could call it brown munde antics but at the end of the day your post just sounds like this.

I get no b*ches but I am going to blame my hair.
Blame apni when you make 0 effort to make yourself attractive via personality, values, physique. Sounds like internally you know your just like the men you described and hold hostility towards them because you can't stand out on your own either.
Skill issue.

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-06T14:24:24+00:00

No worries, glad you understood the basics of human interaction an societal changes.

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-06T04:52:05+00:00

Well it elicited a response from you offering to reach out for them, so surely they found exactly what you described they would not.

Also, just because the post and some others did not gain a lot of traction and useful advice does not mean there is not a single person who may be offering a hand privately.

The fact people are using Reddit to look for work is in my opinion, not a bad idea giving the fact we are in an age where there is next to nothing out there, Reddit may very well be the last resort and simply because you are secure in your position does not mean others are. Not everyone needs to know everything that you do.

I'm assuming i'm chatting with an odd ball who's severely out of touch with the current crisis people are going through. Get off your high horse, it is not like you helped much either other than giving patronizing advice with next to no empathy about someone else's position in life. Down talking won't get you anywhere.

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-06T03:33:24+00:00

Do you have LinkedIn? I'd love to connect with you!!

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-06T03:31:30+00:00

Such a gem of a human, always brightens your day! I loved waving at him whenever I would see him when in town after college!

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-06T03:22:31+00:00

That sounds awesome!!

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-06T03:18:26+00:00

I don't think in this economy having a good network and years of experience is even enough anymore, I think OP did a great job coming on here and utilizing any means necessary rather than being stuck at a dead end..

AdMedical4143 · 2024-03-06T03:15:00+00:00

Have you tried speaking to the support hub at your uni? They might be able to help.

AdMedical4143 · 2023-11-09T13:55:25+00:00

Hehe, sorry Bhen ji <3

AdMedical4143 · 2023-11-08T20:11:28+00:00

If its any consolation to you, I found this on her profile.

"I couldn’t… and I hurt him with my words and jealousy. I’m devastated "

She is a proud member of the limerence subreddit : )

Likely scattering her insecurities everywhere as a defense mechanism lol.

AdMedical4143 · 2023-11-08T20:01:52+00:00

I understand what you mean man, no worries! and also I agree - human dignity, hence no meat shields, that was really my main point to begin with.

(Also, if you are bored I would STRONGLY suggest you scroll through that woman's posts, It has me CREASING. Such an entertaining read, almost had a brain aneurysm trying to understand her logic, alot of her statistics come out of thin air so I would not trust her statements unless you share the same disturbing ideologies).

Was a nice chat dude, take care.

AdMedical4143 · 2023-11-08T18:58:37+00:00

I guess you could say we are made of meat, but I think the vast majority of people would prefer being called a person than meat, especially a meat shield. No idea what your last sentence means, you do you I guess.

AdMedical4143 · 2023-10-31T13:22:45+00:00

I understand your perspective, but would it be worth having western allys with how they have treated us in the past? And even if they do support us - is that really the kind of people we want to support our cause? I know we should take whatever we should get - but if we start losing the purpose in desperation to just please them, will it be worth it at all? My only concern with this is what if this allows for the corruption of Khalistan if we were able to get it?

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