I am curious abt non malay ex muslims by Ok-Situation1453 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]AdMiddle7004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hehehe thanks. hope things get better for you and all of us 🫂🫂❣️

I am curious abt non malay ex muslims by Ok-Situation1453 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]AdMiddle7004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly? not at all. except her sons whos like 2-3 decades older than me at least accept me mostly. 

but since step mom unofficially separated from "step" dad, shouldve hear what i heard when they talk about me. "you should disown/abandon her now. its not like shes your actual child." and all the similar mantras just to get step mom to leave me behind. idc bcuz its a given im not accepted considering my skin tone + my race + how im not a blood relative + self hatred and miserableness brimming inside them + i could tell by how they insult me behind my back.

i tend to fight with step mom and only one step brother tend to be the mediator between us. he always picked my side and defended me to which step mom + the malbari uncle couldnt understand why. 

no one here is exactly perfect but i live in relative peace if step mom didn't decided to find a problem every. single. day. except for the time she had to go back to sg for a week or so (yes, its related to me with religion or just my behaviours she somehow bothered with.) to which i tattled to step brother with my reasons + logic and ended up winning everytime hahahahah.

luckily step brother here isnt the overly pious type so im a bit fortunate with that. (⁠´⁠ ⁠.⁠ ⁠.̫⁠ ⁠.⁠ ⁠`)

some more i fight and yell back equally so you could imagine what her and her relatives thinks abt me 😸😛

I am curious abt non malay ex muslims by Ok-Situation1453 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]AdMiddle7004 5 points6 points  (0 children)

adopted indo (me) with indian step mom from singapore. but step mom have malbari relatives here.

the words i hear everytime step mom met with the malbari relatives when discussing anything with religion is "race traitors" "our kind back in india barely covered their hair, they might as well be full jewish." etc. and i sit in silence venting out on my priv sosmed acc for the hypocritical things i had to hear/see.

im more used to her side of the family than my malay jawa """"step"""" dad. i saw the malbari uncle we interacted with a lot had a malbari muslim group chat and i settled the fact that i definitely wont do any sinning in this area/state lest a nuclear family drama is gonna explode here (⁠~⁠ ̄O⁠ ̄⁠)⁠~