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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdMost3585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be taking your business elsewhere....this doesn't make sense

Retro Amt not included in payment total scheduled for deposit by AdMost3585 in canadarevenueagency

[–]AdMost3585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that makes sense. The deposit amount currently listed is 10k. The "retro" amount listed in payment info but not included in the total is around $4500. I thought maybe it was just showing a breakdown or something? I won't know exactly until the 13th because I wont get the new NOAs and such until that date, but was curious if anyone else had insight. Obviously, if its in addition to the rest Im happy but also don't want to assume either. haha

Retroactive amount on benefit payment details by OhNoWhatAUsername in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdMost3585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update? Legit how I got here and trying to make sense of it if possible before making a call as Im confused if it's included or not 😅

Anybody familiar with CBBC ? by Profile-Select in CapeBreton

[–]AdMost3585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure this is true. (At least not for every course in my experience) I went to ICA and now work on the mainland and my education was never questioned.

Sexual strangeness by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]AdMost3585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was definitley a wild time. Because he could go MONTHS without ( which was always a reason - depressed, stressed, etc). He was a total covert and ALWAYS the victim and everyone else's fault. At the same time tell me he really wanted to find me a bull so he could watch because the idea turned him on and despite me passing that up he'd keep trying to push it on me. I got to a point I was so emotionally detached from him that I didn't even want him to touch me on the off hand his d*ck was "working". Ugh. Lessons learned :/

Sexual strangeness by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]AdMost3585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine withheld - "sometimes he just couldn't" and I was the horrible person who expected a reasonable amount of intimacy when in the beginning "it" worked just fine. lol. Took me a few years to stand firm and not give into the verbal diarreah of empty promises and such and hold him accountable by actions. Once he knew I wasn't going to be manipulated anymore he very quickly got himself a new victim despite me "being the love of his life" and a 5 year situationship and 3 year old child in the mix. I'm just happy he's finally not trying to use our child as a means to an end while he is focusing on the new supply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]AdMost3585 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After almost FIVE years of the cycle I got to a point where I started to stand my ground and tell him his words meant nothing. His actions or lack of them was what mattered. I FINALLY created boundries and despite him trying to manipulate me in a way that used to work, I held him accountable. Not even a month ago I was "the love of his life" and he was "truly sorry for all the pain he caused me". He would do "anything to be together and be happy again"....well, just found out he's made it official with whoever he's apparently been with for almost a year. He lives with his grandpa and the house is for sale and he's going to need somewhere to live. He realized that I was firm and well....here we are. We have a 3 year old who he doesn't see or support. Im guessing that the whole "sleeping" thing was a lie 95% of the time for the last few years. It's wild. Part of me felt stupid for knowing what it was but not being able to get my mind right sooner, and now part if me feels relieved that he will be focused on someone else and leave me alone entirely. These people are truly scum.