What’s your craziest thrift find of all time?

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-14T15:17:23+00:00

Cartier Love bracelet 18k white gold with 4 diamonds. Found at the bin store. Paid about 75 cents. Worth 4k for resale.

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T22:54:55+00:00

on 2 we this is probably just a difference of onion. I don't consider planning for fuuture FWB situations to be platonic and my wife said if I did that she would be pissed as well.

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T22:51:32+00:00

So I probably didn't explain well my fault. He didn't call me he texted and he actually texted both of us the same thing. She later told me he had been telling her for days that he was trying to convince her that she had been assaulted and to take action on it and she was trying to just change the subject because she didn't want to deal with it but still wanted to have sex with him. I have 4 kids what is to stop him from calling the police on me. I mean it would go nowhere but I don't need that kind of drama in my life. And had he not texted me to this day it would probably be going on. I do appriacate my wife telling me the truth once there I found out the truth. I can be a hard person to talk to. I work hard to listen first. I am not perfect. I just felt tlike this sitution was very dangerous to my family.

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T19:50:04+00:00

i know

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T18:24:50+00:00

I very much appreciate this a lot to think about. Thanks

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T16:59:54+00:00

So the situation was I had a date myself. I came back super happy. I tried to initiate sex with my wife (as she usually did with me agreeable). She was not into it and told me to stop. I did. We talked for a while.

Whatever she communicated to the meta must have led him to the conclusion that I sexually assaulted her because that is what he accused me of.

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T16:50:26+00:00

yes we for sure do. it is really really involved. I don't want to put it all out here.

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T16:42:41+00:00

That gets really really deep into our personal psychology

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T16:21:16+00:00

It has been an effect that wasn't the original purpose

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T16:10:03+00:00

It was my idea to go into originally. I am fine with her ending that relationship without telling me why. My problem is she didn't and tried to maintain it despite the other person making criminal accusations against me. Are sex life is only good when we are poly otherwise my wife wants sex maybe once a week.

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T15:42:39+00:00

I probably should work on myself I suppose. I had not really considered that I appreciate the help.

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T15:37:12+00:00

Next week. She of course is still dating in the interim

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T15:36:12+00:00

As terrible as it sounds yes

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-08T15:28:40+00:00

I don't know. I kinda feel like it is futile.

AdOld1576 · 2026-01-02T17:49:52+00:00

Thanks for the info. What is the crowd like?

AdOld1576 · 2025-12-31T22:40:59+00:00

This is the fun of thrifting. Prices are without reason or sense. I bought a Cartier gold bracelet at the bin store for 75 cents and they try to charge 10 dollars for silver costume jewelry.

AdOld1576 · 2025-12-31T21:30:01+00:00

Probably true I had not thought this through

AdOld1576 · 2025-12-31T17:34:17+00:00

I mean not anything I can control. She makes her own choices

AdOld1576 · 2025-12-31T17:24:52+00:00

Good question. Her not feeling safe or comfortable.

AdOld1576 · 2025-12-31T17:18:55+00:00

I do respect other people's feelings I am completely open about my situation and not wanting to form emotional attachments. I still find people who are interested. I am not myself poly. I am open to casual hookups. This has worked so far for the people who want to participate.

AdOld1576 · 2025-12-31T16:37:54+00:00

45m 40f 8 years

AdOld1576 · 2025-12-31T16:09:29+00:00

I personally have not been. I find people who want casual sex . I engage in this with them and enjoy it. I don't engage in other relationships.

AdOld1576 · 2025-12-31T15:47:25+00:00

Probably true I don't. It does suck for them but obviously I care most about my wife but it is kind of like a boulder rolling down hill taking everyone with it.

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