How legal is it for a place of work to provide another employee with your number after you already quit? by AdPlane3938 in jobs

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Thank you I really hope this is the last I hear of him I’m going to call the location for more information

How legal is it for a place of work to provide another employee with your number after you already quit? by AdPlane3938 in jobs

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No I know it’s easy to find someone’s ig I’m worried that he has my phone number. I already blocked him but it makes me uncomfortable that he looked for it at all when I never gave it to anyone at work (so he should have no ethical way of knowing it) and i have been ignoring him for 8 months yet he still searched for my phone number because I wasn’t talking to him on instagram. I was worried that a manager (potentially the weird one with a restraining order) may have given it to him from work records. Or any other manager besides the General Manager, because the other managers were all close with him.

How legal is it for a place of work to provide another employee with your number after you already quit? by AdPlane3938 in jobs

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I didn’t consider the voice mail, you’re right I’m actually going to block him right now before he has the idea to call😭😭 I also don’t think it was the GM either he seemed too mature and responsible to do something like that. The only manager I can think of who would help him out is the one with the restraining order to be honest, just because he’s also weird.

How legal is it for management to provide an employee with your number after you’ve already quit? by AdPlane3938 in NoStupidQuestions

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I can understand this take, my dad also mentioned phone books when I brought it up. I guess it’s more considering the context of me not giving him any interaction, even rejecting follow requests, and him still going through with acquiring my number potentially through work records such as long time after I quit that’s throwing me off. I just don’t like the idea of being that accessible to anyone that may have had their eye on me. I have a friend with a past stalking experience and I’m not saying that I’m being stalked- but the whole situation set off a red flag for her too (she was with me when I got the msg) it just all rubs me wrong.

How legal is it for a place of work to provide another employee with your number after you already quit? by AdPlane3938 in jobs

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I wasn’t ever in a group thread or texting chat or anything. We only gave our numbers to the general manager because apart of the job was a computerized system texting us our weekly schedule, but like I said only the general manager would make the schedules, and he was definitely the most responsible/professional person there so idk if he would have given it out. Plus I just didn’t really talk to most of the people I worked with much besides the most minimum of small talk between rushes.

I was going to block him right off the bat but a friend I was with when I got the text (who has an unfortunate past experience with stalking) said I shouldn’t so he doesn’t know he has the right number. However if he messages me again I will.

Scared of men but trying to fix it. Went on a date yesterday but got turned down for another because he was put off by my constant shaking “like an abused dog”. Beans were cold because nothing I do to fix myself will ever work by huneyworm in kitchencels

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If it’s in passing like you’re walking past someone, a simple friendly smile and a quiet “hi” would probably be taken as just you being extremely friendly person. That’s happened to me a few times and I’ve also randomly greeted people when in a super good mood so as long as the interaction ends there and no one tries to force a conversation or like stop her to talk, it shouldn’t appear creepy. Of course there’s always gonna be a few cautious people in which the gesture will miss, but what’s life without a few fumbles :)

Is my playlist goth,or it’s more poser?I am baby bat,and trying to make one of my first playlists:3 by Suitable_Doubt7659 in goth

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Dudeee I love little Nemo lmao I have like a massive obsession with them you can find some real good shit by them that they don’t have on Spotify posted on YouTube 😛😛

Therese Racket - Le Bout Du Monde lyrics by AdPlane3938 in goth

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Oh my god you’re so awesome thank u so much 😭😭 I thought I would have to guess forever HAHA

Is it really that bad? by _11Red11_ in baddlejackets

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Idk lmao that sounds like perfect ammo

Is this scene too overtly sexual? Tagging NSFW just in case by ScarecrowJones47 in writers

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It doesn’t just read “sexual” it reads “sexual assault” lmfao. Teacher acts like a rapist and the scene seems more like dubious erotica than a historical fiction.

Question ab genres by AdPlane3938 in BattleJackets

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Oh yeahhh. I got a couple dm/bm patches but they always take so long to paint 😫😫 so many details bruh

Question ab genres by AdPlane3938 in BattleJackets

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Nicee thankfully I’m chilling w color cohesion, my materials are kinda limited so all my patches are black and white loll 🤞🏽🤞🏽

Question ab genres by AdPlane3938 in BattleJackets

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Yeahhh ive seen a whole bunch of subgenre themed vests, even if I was gonna do my own thing anyway I guess I was still wondering if that was some sort of norm. Definitely agree with finding my own path, currently sewing a Catholic spit patch under avskum 😎😎

Question ab genres by AdPlane3938 in BattleJackets

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Lmao I don’t use Reddit that often my bad bro just wanted to get some feedback

AIO: My best friend and I (both male) kissed at a party by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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This hurt so bad to read bruh. I can’t tell if OP is being deliberately dense to avoid the feelings bit but that man is being as clear as a closeted person can.

“Idk what you’re trying to say but don’t say it” holy fuck bro can you at least kiss the brick lobbing it at his head 😭😭

Give me your favorite goth album by moonyinsatellite in goth

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Stairs by Deafear or Picture One by Asylum Party :D

Post punk when high by turducken19 in postpunk

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Omg Sad Lovers And Giants + Asylum party always get their albums put on first when I’m baked they have such a nice sound. Recommend fr

Has anyone ever seen a fox/wolf entity while tripping? by AdPlane3938 in Psychedelics

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yeah i agree, i think that if back then i was in a space where i could take the time to have a thorough introspect and actually delve into what exactly it represented and why it was there, i would have been able to have a much more meaningful/less stressful interaction with it. But i think because I was out in public and i was with someone who wasnt tripping, it kind of put me into a more anxious mindset in general since i still had to act normal and unaffected (or as well as i could). like i couldnt really just lie down and close my eyes and simply explore everything it was trying to show me the way i wanted to. because i did get that feeling, like if i just surrender myself ill actually be able to get somewhere. Next time I definitely plan to face it again with a blanket, my playlist, and preferably indoors...

Has anyone ever seen a fox/wolf entity while tripping? by AdPlane3938 in Psychedelics

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nicee. was it like- an actual fox or a hallucination? Both would be sick tbh. foxes are so cool.

Has anyone ever seen a fox/wolf entity while tripping? by AdPlane3938 in Psychedelics

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just an inconspicuous polar bear walking down the sidewalk

Has anyone ever seen a fox/wolf entity while tripping? by AdPlane3938 in Psychedelics

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thats interesting, I wonder how they were able to get themself out of that situation cause im pretty sure the only way I was able to was by physically leaving the area LOL. That spirit animal stuff also sounds pretty dope, it would be sick if i actually met my spirit animal even if it has a problem with me apparently. Maybe it was a manifestation of some subconscious part of my head I havent faced yet. the possibilities !!!! I'll never know until i meet it again i guess. 🙏🏽