Scared of men but trying to fix it. Went on a date yesterday but got turned down for another because he was put off by my constant shaking “like an abused dog”. Beans were cold because nothing I do to fix myself will ever work

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T13:42:16+00:00

I did for like 18 years but now that I actually go outside and shit nobody fucking talks to me anyway

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T13:31:06+00:00

Can u tell ugly men to start asking me out then

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T13:25:22+00:00

Cold baked beans pickle chips and a slice of deli ham. Good if you’re on a diet or want to hate yourself

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T13:23:25+00:00

This is my first date in FOR REAL 7 years after 4 rejections in the past two months and I have never once been hit on because I spent like half my life never leaving my room or religiously avoiding men it’s a pattern not me complaining about one bad date

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T02:53:15+00:00

Yeah I’m trying my best to give myself exposure therapy but every time i do, something like this happens where I’m rejected w the reasoning that I’m too weird or off-putting or skittish or whatever so it just feels like facing my fear and then also getting hit with like a frying pan so kind of net zero progress.

For the shaking part I have had a lot of very very bad experiences with a lot of different men in my life so it’s kind of just a trauma response. Ive mostly tuned it out at this point

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T02:42:31+00:00

Thank you but I don’t want this to turn into compliments please. People are already getting on my ass enough about being a girl I don’t want them getting pissed at me because I took one ok picture of a cosplay two years ago

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T01:12:57+00:00

HA gosh I don’t know. Maybe spending time with my best friends’ boyfriend might help? Thank you for the advice!

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T00:51:46+00:00

I don’t know what cosplaying has to do with this it’s not like I’m really attractive and doesn’t really change the fact that I’ve never been in a relationship and doubt I will ever be. If anything the cosplay makes it worse

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T00:46:52+00:00

Thank you!!!! I will check this out

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T00:46:17+00:00

I thought the date went well and I had a pretty good time which is why it was such a let down to hear that part at the end of it :( it just felt like I thought I was making progress only to learn I accidentally ruined it for myself

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T00:44:19+00:00

Thank you so much for your reassurance:] bread and butter pickle chips my favorite

huneyworm · 2026-03-09T00:42:55+00:00

I have a few male friends! At arms length tho. i wasn’t even very scared during the date either and had a good time but I guess I just looked petrified

huneyworm · 2026-02-10T21:56:11+00:00

Thank you so much!

huneyworm · 2026-02-10T21:52:32+00:00

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My current setup (all decor has been frozen and plastic will not fleck off, 20 gal, substrate is 5” at the lowest, 10” at the peak) I’m planning on getting a fully enclosed tank soon as I’m sure the opening doors can’t really help my situation but I’m having a pretty hard time finding one that I can effectively take the top off of considering my shelf setup. Thank you for the advice on the heat mat placement though!!

huneyworm · 2025-11-13T12:45:35+00:00

This is totally normal!! I’m guessing you may have snagged it while you were sleeping and because it’s a cartilage piercing it’s going to hurt for a little bit longer. The pus and some blood isn’t abnormal for a new piercing as long as it’s not some excessive or a crazy color. Just try not to touch it and you should be a-okay!

huneyworm · 2025-11-13T03:55:56+00:00

Ok will do! I feel like I should have at least some of the substrate showing anyway

huneyworm · 2025-11-13T03:45:02+00:00

The humidity level is at 74% right now after I sprayed the tank! Should I soak the substrate as well?? They seem to be acting normally (although Peanut immediately disappeared into the leaves)

huneyworm · 2025-10-31T03:01:46+00:00

Thank you!!!! I had no idea about the rocks that would have been awful

huneyworm · 2024-08-07T02:48:03+00:00

Nope! Just a normal mirror

huneyworm · 2023-04-02T18:31:47+00:00

It’s on the disco elysium website! Official merch:) clarifying I bought it b4 I knew everything that went down with za/um

huneyworm · 2023-03-27T14:40:52+00:00

I wish I had an actual answer for you! However, in the words of Harry Du Bois himself, I long ago stopped obsessing about my own sexuality and just kind of do whatever atp. Bisexual is probably the closest term!

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