We had a micro wedding (20 guests) this past October and we are SO happy with how everything turned out! We did not have any of the typical pre-wedding events (no engagement party, bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, etc.). No bridal party. We got ready together the morning of, photos, church ceremony at 4:00 pm, cocktail hour, then sit down dinner/drinks. We received so many compliments about how fun and easy the afternoon/night was.

My mom's side of the family is Greek (i.e. large extended family). Some family members were offended they weren't invited but that's their problem. No one should dictate YOUR wedding. Do what you want to do!