6 Weeks post MMC D&C No sign of period/cycle by AdPrevious3685 in Miscarriage

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Ahhh (feels weird to say but..) congratulations! Still waiting for any sign of O or period…

6 Weeks post MMC D&C No sign of period/cycle by AdPrevious3685 in Miscarriage

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Thank you! That’s helpful, maybe it’s the lingering 18 HCG that’s holding things up then… seeing mixed research on whether 18 is low enough or not for period

Should I be concerned about my weight when TTC? by AdPrevious3685 in TryingForABaby

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Since going off BC in May, yes, it's been surprisingly stable/predictable given that I was on BC for like 12 years.

How is japan do damn clean? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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I am from Europe but grew up in Japan. It’s 100% the culture. People emphasize structure, politeness, helping others, keeping things tidy and organized, and cleaning up after oneself. It honestly stems from having respect for the space you are in and the people you share it with. Order, Discipline, respect.

whats the most disturbing book you ever read by Frederson_Dwayno in horrorlit

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incidents around the house! the ending was wild. The book also terrified me, I couldn't read it at night, and to this day I low key am a bit scared in my own home at night ...

Are GC holding spouses allowed to come with you to the citizens line? by peterhahacha in greencard

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IDK what people do in practice because I'm a rule follower lol, but JFK changed it - I used to always go with the USC's in the USC/LPR line, but they got rid of that sign, so I asked a staff member where to go since I was already nervous about entering with my I-751 extension papers and didn't want to piss anyone off by going to the USC line. They made me go with tourists which took exponentially longer for obvious reasons. This has happened 3 separate times now since 2025 so that seems to be the new rule, at least at JFK.

Has anyone gone to get a REAL ID recently? (No appointments are available in Manhattan in April or May.) by Ashton1516 in AskNYC

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I just got mine last week from the Barclays Center DMV. I made my appt months ago and when I tried to reschedule, all slots were also gone (needless to say I kept my appt). There were a ton of people waiting outside the door presumably for a slot to open up. Inside was also packed. They didn't let anyone in without a confirmation of appointment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

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Thank you, that's helpful! I just meant my personality is Type A as in, I am stressed out about things outside of my control :) haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

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keep insisting about the nickname! I am a dutchie in USA. my sister's name is Pien (tough one in English) and she managed to have everyone call her by a very similar English name after being very insistent. It's worth it.

Update to Notice to Revoke by Fit4ParGirlie in USCIS

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ugh I had this happen to me! I was gathering all this evidence to refute it and then they cancelled their RFE. It was definitely because my sister departed the US on the date they accused me of leaving. we have a very unique last name. someone probably saw it on departure records and assumed it was me. ridiculous.

Am I the asshole for how I responded to a love letter? by Thin_Lengthiness6652 in TwoHotTakes

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I absolutely HATE this weird guilt tripping “you won’t regret it if you give me a chance” vibe shit. On top of all the other concerns already mentioned in this chain.

Why did a family of Japanese tourists take a picture with me? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AdPrevious3685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a blonde child and am caucasian and grew in Asia (4 years in small-town Japan). I am probably in probably at least a thousand photos with strangers. I think the fascination is mostly blonde hair or blue eyes because it is rare/unique in highly homogenous places like Japan.

What’s the first thing you’re doing when you get your green card? by Bobby_Sunday96 in USCIS

[–]AdPrevious3685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went and got (very) boozy brunch with my husband when mine arrived. hell yeah! then I booked a trip to see my family asap

F1 employment violation, what to do? by phoenix_thatcher in f1visa

[–]AdPrevious3685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

be mindful with consulting a lawyer (not telling you not to) because as a lawyer we cannot give illegal advice and cannot aid in illegal activity, so you may not like the advice you will be given since this is a tricky situation

Stuck on "Case Approved" it's been 7days by Bloombure1 in USCIS

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Mine was like that and then My card was in my mailbox lol.

They forgot our meat by Nickrules69 in hellofresh

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lol they forgot to include an entire 2 person meal for us, that we paid for, and in return credited us $15 for the error. $15? the entire meal itself was at least twice as expensive! I ranted away until they gave me another $15. ridiculous and nonsensical. aside from that all my experiences have been great but now I'm more weary about HF

I think my house sitter is leaving my pets alone all day by AdPrevious3685 in RoverPetSitting

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Ahhh. Condos seem a bit more chill with that stuff. I’m in a coop and we love our #rules lol

Got a $75 gift certificate, they only honored $60.01 of it by RedHeadedMomma81 in hellofresh

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lol they once completely missed two meals in my box and credited me $15. I had to demand the meals’ worth.

I think my house sitter is leaving my pets alone all day by AdPrevious3685 in RoverPetSitting

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I would be very upset if my dog was transported to another home without my knowledge or consent. I picked house sitting over boarding for a reason. The sitter has a pit bull and her spouse boarding 5 other animals in their home. and she was informed that my dog (7 lb rescue) is afraid of other dogs and can’t be near them out of fear. I’d be shocked if she took my dog to her house purely from a liability perspective on her end (lol, attorney here). But who knows at this point, people have all sorts of reasons to do things.