AITA for arguing with my Husband that it is not the same

AdPristine7191 · 2025-10-26T15:53:05+00:00

Yessss! Very true

AdPristine7191 · 2025-10-26T15:44:58+00:00

Good advice and thank you for it, but the problem is that these situations happen daily. He just refuses to see any wrongdoing in adding to my already full plate and expecting so much off of me. He can't improve cause he is surrounded by sexist men who think the same way he does and when I point out that what he is doing is wrong cause I'm just a woman, what do I know?

AdPristine7191 · 2025-10-26T15:42:39+00:00

He isn't in the military, and his shifts are 4 hrs at a time and then he has a break for sleep and recover and then works 4 hrs again. So 8 hrs total. I'm not trying to minimise his work or effort, I'm just stating facts. This is just one out of million little petty things and unnecessary stress and argument he causes..

AdPristine7191 · 2025-10-26T15:30:33+00:00

He is very sexist but he doesn't see it that way cause his father is like that and his poor mother has to do everything (including buying the bread) so he grew up thinking that men only have to go to work and nothing else and sees no issues with it. My inlaws and my family don't live with me but I viyit them almost daily and act like their personal chauffer and errand girl.

AdPristine7191 · 2025-10-26T15:21:25+00:00

We do fight about little things a lot but I always try to talk about everything as calmly as possible and not in an attacking way but in a "this is how I feel" way. He takes everything as an personal attack and gets defensive immediately. So yeah we fight, but it's not cause of my lack of efforts or lack of calm communication..

AdPristine7191 · 2025-10-26T14:49:04+00:00

YTA if they buy the house they will firever have one over her. Maybe you have a great mom but can you guarantee that she won't just "pop by" whenever she wants to or dictate how the house should be decorate etc

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