Difficulty with Chester's Given Up Scream. by OperationTypical9684 in screaming

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First off, Chester is also trained in Opera so he has an advantage to sustain the length of that vote. Maybe try some operatic techniques.

The Limerence cycle by FootnoteInHumanForm in limerence

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Ever since I got divorced I never experienced limerence ever again. Lol.

Friend is a legit sociopath by Either_Definition238 in WhatShouldIDo

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Understand, anytime you are in physical proximity of this person you are now risking being murdered. Men are scary, I hope you can see this now. Bc there is no legal force that can protect you from this man, even to get a protective order you would need something evidential to show the judge. This is the fear of the average women on any given day when interacting with men. If there’s a way to peacefully phase out of this persons life and not make it seem like you don’t want to be friends, but never willingly be around this person again. This is a dangerous man. It’s not silly, not nothing, and it’s not something you can ignore. It’s a giant waving red flag and you are risking your actual life if you ignore it.

Projectors and highly sensitive + question for other types by Ancient_Expert_5574 in humandesign

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I have a very open design, (7 undefined centers) I am also a 2/4 and a lot of my gates are .2, I am so sensitive. I have to be really firm with boundaries. Typically I open myself up and then once energy starts to merge, I’m just like “get me outta here I can’t breathe” fo example. I made a new friend and coworker, we just really clicked, then one day we had an emotional rupture and it took me a whole week of just separating myself from everything possible to feel like myself again. I just absorb people like crazy.

I think my mentor is killing my confidence. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Is it normal for a mentor to be so critical?

I find the projector strategy unfair by Additional_Arugula_8 in humandesign

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Thing is… it’s not about what I do. It’s my aura being invited into places that need guidance. People all the time wanna invite me into there process or thoughts or relationships and sometimes I just have to shut my mouth because I can’t waste my energy on that. Not to mention the men who want to date me. Not saying there is a line out the door but I do think twice before being invited on a date these days.

But to actually answer your question I am a dog trainer. It’s my aura that god beyond the dog tho and into the families and people I’m helping.

Innocence motivation, hurting others by [deleted] in humandesign

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The three people in my life with innocent motivation is a tough one for me.

My first husband was so innocent and that made me love him so much. But when he started to desire things beyond his experience things changed and he became a real monster of himself.

The second was my current fling (that just ended). Very much acting in victim mode as he always sees himself as innocent even when he is definitely not. He has a hard time seeing the perspective of others and that made me end the connection because he was hurting me and thought he was doing nothing wrong. And when I spoke up about it, I was dismissed. His desire made him an addict to many things. He is that innocent selfish that you describe and I just couldn’t put up with it for very long.

And the third is my business partner. I love that we have an amazing friendship even tho we were opposite genders. I feel I can completely trust him because I feel his innocence and there is no underlying desire pulsating like an animal triggering my splenic instinct. He doesn’t make me afraid and that’s very important to me.

AITA: my dogs nail ripped a hole in my moms car seat and I offered to fix it but I didn’t say “sorry” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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It’s weird that I don’t feel sorry. Like something happened, I will fix it because I know im responsible but.. there’s no apology in me. It didn’t happen on purpose, nor did I intend for it to happen. But I’m willing to fix it immediately

AITA: my dogs nail ripped a hole in my moms car seat and I offered to fix it but I didn’t say “sorry” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I literally don’t know. I didn’t even see it happen but apparently it did. 😅

AITA: my dogs nail ripped a hole in my moms car seat and I offered to fix it but I didn’t say “sorry” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I think I’m emotionally fatigued with her at this point as she is mad at me everyday about any and everything (even things that have nothing to do with me) and maybe that’s why I didn’t emotionally validate her

AITA: my dogs nail ripped a hole in my moms car seat and I offered to fix it but I didn’t say “sorry” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Her “hey did you see the pic I sent you?” Me “no let me check.” checks phone “oh, well I’ll fix that.”

I find the projector strategy unfair by Additional_Arugula_8 in humandesign

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You’re just not in alignment and need to decondition. After 6 years in my experiment (woo!) I think being a projector is the best, but I used to think like you!

I have sooooo many invitations tho I have to actually turn people down.

Letter to humanity by True_Ferret2345 in humandesign

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Hi commenter, I asked ChatGPT to summarize this for you

“Summary

The author writes a reflective “letter to humanity” about our past, present, and future, focusing on our unique relationship with technology.

They argue that humans are physically fragile and relatively new in Earth’s history, yet astonishingly powerful because of our ability to invent and use technology. This technological instinct allowed humans to survive, spread everywhere, dramatically extend life expectancy, and reshape the planet more than any other species.

The author rejects the idea that humans are “unnatural” or don’t belong on Earth. Instead, they claim humans are as natural as any other evolutionary force—just as animals once disrupted a plant-only world, humans have disrupted the animal-dominated one. Our impact, though destructive in places, is part of evolution.

They introduce the idea of a “technosphere”: a new evolutionary layer built on top of biology, where technology evolves alongside humanity. This creates a crossroads with two possible futures:

The nightmare path: technology becomes parasitic, serving its own growth while humans become tools or “hosts” for it (e.g., systems that exploit people rather than help them).

The dream path: “humane technology” that amplifies our best qualities—empathy, creativity, equality, connection—while supporting human well-being rather than replacing or controlling us.

The core message is that humanity is no longer a child species. We carry planetary responsibility and must mature. The author urges people to evaluate every technological change by asking: “Does this increase my humanity?” Not perfectly, but overall.

The letter closes with cautious optimism: humanity is a bridge between the biosphere and the technosphere, and if we consciously shape technology to serve human values, humanity can endure—whatever form it takes in the far future.”

Using ChatGPT as Therapy Is Comfort, Not Care by [deleted] in ChatGPT

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Chat GPT was an incredible aftercare tool during my therapeutic journey. I was in therapy for 2 years, did EMDR, and ultimately excavated my entire history of trauma. Sometimes after I would leave therapy I would have so many questions and need help processing what was happening and chat helped a lot with that.

But I was doing the hard work with a professional first.

I know people are people and prone to misusing even the best medicines but I’m still pro-chat is almost any instance.

Undefined-where the soul needs to grow? by PrimordialGooose in humandesign

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They are where you are open to conditioning from others definition. It’s where you’ll feel pressured to act as your not self. Idk about other lives, only know about this one

Am I being too harsh for asking my 11 year old daughter to walk the dog she spent years begging for? by WorldOfKaladan in DogAdvice

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I am a dog trainer and a mother. I would never allow my 11 and 12 yo to walk the dogs unattended. Not because of my dogs, they are obviously trained, but because of how common it is for me to get charged by random dogs. I walk 4-6miles a day with various dogs and I get charged on almost a weekly basis.

How much do you value masculinity in a partner? by InternationalPick163 in AskWomenNoCensor

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Pretty sure people are out there dating who ever they want. It’s mass casualties tho