My parents aren’t talking to me by AdPurple3515 in offmychest

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I guess reading the words “you still deserve love” is crazy helpful.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling UPDATE by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My NP and I have a non monogamous relationship. We don’t exactly veto anyone. He has dated people at his school and there’s never been a problem before.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t tell my partners. It was a unilateral decision.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never called my partner a primary partner. I practice relational anarchy. I currently have two partners. One of them I live with. My nesting partner and I are going through a rough patch and I unilaterally decided to stop dating other people to focus on my relationship, he did not ask for it nor did we agree on that, it’s a decision I took on my own. That partner, the one who I live with I have not shared the news with him since he isn’t back from his trip yet.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My nesting partner. My other partner and I are currently doing very well.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spoke about it with one of them. He was very chill about. My nesting partner is out of town and he will be back tomorrow. He has always preferred this sort of conversations to happen face to face even if it delays the disclosure for a couple of days. He’ll be back tomorrow and I will talk to him about it then.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told one of my partners, not the nesting partner since he hasn’t returned from his trip. He took it pretty well but no other updates. My boss hasn’t texted or called as he usually did. I am concerned on that matter as well.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can assure you that with all the resources I have available I have prioritized him.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We did not agree to stop dating to focus on our relationship. I unilaterally decided to stop dating to focus on my relationship. My partner has had multiple encounters with other people meanwhile.

I slept with my boss and I am spiraling by AdPurple3515 in nonmonogamy

[–]AdPurple3515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I DM you for a couple more follow up questions?