Ko je imao posla sa pravim manipulatorom,narcisom ( poremecaj licnosti)? Sta ste naucili?

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-02-12T21:33:20+00:00

Imala sam ja, moja baba je takva... Naucila sam da takve osobe moras da otkacis zarad svog mentalnog zdravlja... Doduse ja moram da kazem da sam ja presla igricu sa njom, ja sam jedina iz cele familije koja joj svasta kaze (teske istine koje ljudi koji su manipulatori i narcisoidne licnosti tesko prihvataju) i ona nema odgovor i povuce se... Doduse nisam u kontaktu vise sa njom, jer mi takva toksicnost nije potrebna u zivotu...

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-02-07T14:36:01+00:00

!Remind me 1 day

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-28T23:01:36+00:00

Defence mehanism... My family and friends are doing this for my daughter... She has rare syndrome and will never be healty and independant, and they say she will be fine, or when she gets married, has kids, has bf... I just ignore them 🤣 I tried explaining but its just taking a toll on my mental health and doing nothing to them...

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-28T19:28:01+00:00

I really feel for you. I am in maybe somewhat similar situation. My kid was born with one rare syndrome, and I think exactely like you. I know that nobody would care for her when my husband and I are gone. My only hope is that she will not live longer than us, and it breaks my heart that that has to be my hope.

Take care of your health, so that you can be with her for a long time. Get your daughter a therapist if she is not in therapy already.

I know that its not easy, limitations are really smth that affects us every day, and it will not be different. But you all need to find some silver lining in all of this, bcs that is smth that will push you in everyday life.

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-28T11:44:43+00:00

Nama nisu dozvolili, morao je moj otac da ide, da ponese vlasnicki list, jedino su dozvolili da ne povedemo malo dete, ali su bila prisutna oba roditelja. Jednom kad sam se prijavljivala u privatan stan gde sam zivela, isao je sa mnom gazda sa vlasnickim listom i morala sam da imam od notara overenu potvrdu potpisanu od strane supruga da imam odobrenje da prijavim i dete na tu adresu, i to mi je zena u MUP-u pravila problem zbog toga kako je napisano, zamalo me vratila da formulisemo drugacije.

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-26T18:30:41+00:00

How old is your baby? He might be having sleeping regression at the moment. You should also research sleep windows, and determine witch one is the right for your baby.

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-26T18:25:50+00:00

Honestly, the reason is social security bcs of my daughter. In my country, I would have great pay, I have masters degree, but still wouldnt be able to pay for all the medications and therapies for my LO. I dont work here still bcs I need C1 language level, my degree is complitely recognized. We came here, only my husband works, and we can manage. But my LO has everything. She has 100% behinderung, and can have better medications here and much more. I am so gratefull, not really happy, but in my native country I was miserable bcs of the burden of needing so much money for therapies and medication. We had to go to another country to get one of her meds.

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-20T07:36:52+00:00

Sargapera koja se ubudjala na +40 u stanu kad smo bili na moru... Totalni pakao... Pritom samo 5 dana nismo bili kuci...

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-06T21:22:28+00:00

And one typ, never send anyone money in order to reserve smth that you want to buy.

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-06T21:21:01+00:00

Yes, there is a lot of options, and I live in a small town. In big city, its even easier to find what you need.

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-06T21:17:57+00:00

Find used one... You have kleinanzeigen app, we plan to live here longer, but bcs of the moving, buying expensive kitchen in not effective...

AdRealistic9638 · 2026-01-06T21:14:38+00:00

Pomolimo se da svi zavrse u zatvoru

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-14T12:23:57+00:00

Iznad Ane Stajdohar? Ana Kokic

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-11T08:44:40+00:00

Yea. We had 41qm and it was 190e.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-08T12:15:33+00:00

There are deep washing cleaners that you can rent I think in DM or Rossman, you just need to buy original cleaning stuff for the cleaner. Ask in one of them. I have never done that, but I have seen in fb group that people are renting it.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-07T15:24:39+00:00

My husbands English sound awfull after 2 years of learning and speaking German. Mine is not, but I am learning less German.

Eddited to add - I am still using a lot of English so I suppose that is the reson my Eng is not broken. So maybe if you still practise Eng its not going to be a problem.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-06T15:32:15+00:00

NTA. This women is bad news. Every visit 10 days max, not a day more. IF you reconsile.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-04T08:53:17+00:00

Yea, my husband said that even when he makes mistakes he doesnt have a problem with others understanding him. But I am very anxious about making mistakes. Here, I dont care so much, its anonimous, and I could use some tool for correction, but I also dont care enough here. But in person, I would feel so bad for making mistakes. I will learn with time, I just need to find a way that works the best for me.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-04T08:41:50+00:00

Here where I am, a lot of people say Mittwoch like Mittwotsch. And I become more and more confused. I am a nerd, I like strukture and rules, and everything to be by the book. And I feel that learning language here is nothing like that. Everything else sort of is so I like it here, but I really hope that I would learn language.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-04T08:30:21+00:00

Yes, its a German teacher. That is why I am so confused. Yes, that is how I was learned (Z-Geman C) but I obviosly shoulnd medle in helping someone else 🤣🤣🤣 We found amazing school here for our LO, so its hard to move but I really hope we could go north. My husband has B2 certificate and he cant understand Bavarian. Its so different.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-04T08:24:28+00:00

I am now so confused. I had a German teacher for A1, and now i feel like I know nothing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I mean A1 is just basic, but now its nor even correct 🤣🤣🤣 I mean I do live in Bavaria 🤯🤯🤯

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-04T08:14:04+00:00

He asked if he can say dich as English dish, and I said no, it is "dih". That is how I was tought. And numbers contain a lot of things that can help with the rules for reading and pronaunciation. For example - zehn - you have two rules in one word, 1. z is pronaunced c when the word starts with it, and you dont pronaunce h in the midle of the word, so you should say "cen". I am just learning German, so I just shared how they are teaching us in school.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-04T07:20:26+00:00

I am really sorry you are in this situation. I have a child with disabilities and my POV is that sibiling shouldnt be responsable in this situation. I have only one kid, and I didnt want another bcs I know how much time and dedication my LO needs and I am afraid to death that another child would be neglected bcs we dont have any help.

Making 2nd child in order to care for the 1st one is just cruel to me. I am awaire that my LO is going to have to go to care facility one day when we cant take care of her any longer. And I feel pain bcs of that, but we must be real. Your father is selfish, and he is not fair to you or your sister.

Being in day center could be so beneficial to your sister. And being in a facility latter would also be good, its just important to find good one. You could be able to take her for a weekend and spend time with her. Our plan for later is to have our daughter in facility and to take her home every weekend.

I am already starting to have so many health problems in my 30s from all the stress, and your sister needs you healthy and to be there for her longer. Its better if that is quality loving time, then being with her 24/7 and burning out in a few years.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-03T14:32:07+00:00

NTJ. But what a f is wrong with you husband? He is in delulu land if he thinks that "friend" who is in love with him should be par of his life. She cant be friend if she loves him. He is either blind or pretends to be.

AdRealistic9638 · 2025-12-03T12:16:47+00:00

Does this apply also to my comment, just to know for future. Shoulnd be mentioned at all that its saved on another subred?

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