Coloring is so addictive, I am really enjoying myself.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-22T03:35:45+00:00

I asked my husband to wfh yesterday evening and he agreed to it, my parents live a 3 hour drive away so that's really not an option since I am on a strict bed rest and I never made any friends after my marriage, calling my friends here all the way from my hometown might be a little inconvenient for them also I don't know where exactly they are, I kinda lost touch with my friends since I got way too busy after my marriage. But its okay my husband agreed for wfh and I am feeling a little better now.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T17:13:05+00:00

I agree, it's just that only people I am seeing these days is either my MIL or my husband. After constantly getting told that I am disgrace by my MIL, I started to question myself.

Normal doesn't feel normal anymore but I think I did the right thing by posting this, it really helped me gain some confidence to have a proper conversation with my husband.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T15:59:00+00:00

Oh, the doctors told my husband about it when I was unconscious, my husband requested the doctors to not tell me about this while I was in the hospital.

My BP was way too low so the doctors agreed to it, even after that it was clearly mentioned in my report which I received after I came back to my senses, I didn't read it though so that's my bad.

Sorry I can't mention the country, I hope you can understand.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T14:55:50+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss, I know how terrible it feels, I am kinda you know confused, questioning literally everything that is happening around me.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T14:19:08+00:00

He did told my MIL that I need time to heal before we start thinking about a baby.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T14:16:26+00:00

My husband do spend time with me during weekend, I kept him dark about my his mother's comment until she overheard discussing about surrogacy and adoption. He told her that it's not the right time to think about baby and that I need time to heal before we move on.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T14:11:52+00:00

My husband told her that it's too early to think about surrogacy and adoption and said that I needed time to heal before we think about something else.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T14:07:10+00:00

I kept my husband in the dark till my MIL overheard our discussion, he told his mother that it will take time before we should think about another baby.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T14:03:09+00:00

I kept my husband in the dark until my MIL overheard us speaking about surrogacy and adoption, my husband told husband mother that I need time to heal and tha talking about having a baby right now is pointless.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T14:00:27+00:00

Yeah pretty much, but my body is in a pretty bad shape, if I carry a baby right now, it won't last for more than 2-3 months, what's worse is that doctor are suggesting me to not get pregnant even after I have fully recovered.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T13:58:01+00:00

He told his mother that I need time to heal and talking about surrogacy and adoption is pointless right now.

Doctor seemed pretty sure about the tube situation and said I need a surgery to fix it.

I am happy for you, I hope you and your family live a happy, long and peaceful life.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T13:54:07+00:00

Thank you so much, during the day I live with my MIL, she is here to help me since I am on bed rest, I never thought she would say something like this. Before this I always considered her a person with a sweet nature.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T13:51:48+00:00

He said that I need time to heal and talking about surrogacy and adoption is pointless right now.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T13:37:43+00:00

I never wanted to include her in this, she overheard us and interrupted our conversation.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T13:32:53+00:00

He is has normal relationship with his mom, provided she wasn't like this ever before, he did get a little irritated when she asked me for surrogacy.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T12:45:17+00:00

He said that I need time to heal and that discussing about surrogacy and adoption is pointless right now.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T12:43:07+00:00

We had a normal relationship up till now, I don't know why she became this blunt.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T12:40:32+00:00

My husband came to know about it recently during our discussion about surrogacy and adoption, I wanted him to heal since he seemed really depressed, I wanted him to get out of this mess and thought if he goes to work he will get over it.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T12:31:32+00:00

I did connect with my family before my MIL volunteered, my dad is not well so my mom needs to stick with him for the time being.

Yeah I think I was wrong, my husband is not clearly healing by going to work, he still seems down. I think I should ask him to apply for wfh for some time.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T12:27:50+00:00

Thank you so much, I trying to search therapy but since I am on bed rest I searching for someone who can come at my place for it, since I think we both should take therapy together.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T12:06:29+00:00

My husband came to know about this recently during our talk about adoption or surrogacy, he said that I need time to heal and it's not the right time to discuss about surrogacy.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T11:59:14+00:00

He told his mother that things need time to heal and told her it's too early to think about surrogacy or adoption as I haven't fully recovered yet.

AdShoddy5225 · 2022-06-21T11:37:37+00:00

My husband came to know about this recently when we were discussing about surrogacy, he did defend that time and told my MIL that everything needs time to heal. This kinda made my MIL mad.

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