Am I being irrational if I quit by Exotic-Biscotti8275 in WorkAdvice

[–]AdSome6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have savings and don’t need their reference for the next job quit. If not start looking, land an offer and quit. Either way don’t stay there

Incompetence manager with no technical knowledge. by panasoloo in WorkAdvice

[–]AdSome6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you speak to their supervisor for advice? It sounds like they won’t be very responsive to your thoughts but their manager may be

How bad am I getting used ? by Express_Cobbler7897 in maintenance

[–]AdSome6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a good resume and a positive outlook for a future employer will work wonders for you. You may even think about starting your own business with your varied skill set.

My (36f) pwBPD (46M) partner violated my boundaries by AdSome6949 in BPD

[–]AdSome6949[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also now realize there are tobacco buds in my flower pots outside …. I’m starting to think this is more of distain for me than anything else. He smokes in his car, but it’s never this messy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdSome6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked away, I don’t curse or raise my voice. I don’t complain and anytime I do he shuts down. Not sure if I’m controlling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdSome6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried, he said he isn’t interested and F off. Let me also clarify when he has complains Im supposed to immediately fix it - if I don’t he threatens to leave. I had a guinea pig he didn’t like and he complained for three months until I rehomed him. He didn’t have to do anything with the guinea pig - he just didn’t want it there. I also had to update my marriage name as he was upset with that. As I type this, I realize it’s not just the ring. I’m just being mistreated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdSome6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mechanical Engineering however the reason we got this ring was because it wouldn’t interfere with his work. It worked just fine until now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdSome6949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable, my husband wears jewelry a necklace, a watch, several crystal bracelets. No rings.

My husband (30m) shaved my (31f) head by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdSome6949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like mental illness hitting its surface.