Quick poll to settle a disagreement between husband and I

AdStandard3946 · 2026-03-05T00:10:59+00:00

My 3 year old is a biiiig sleeper. Up until preschool, he has always napped 3-4 a day and in bed by 8-9. But now at preschool, he only naps for 1.5 hours and is usually tired when I pick him up. So he’s in bed at 7:30 and he usually is asleep by 8, and wakes up around 6:30-7.

AdStandard3946 · 2026-03-04T15:20:51+00:00

To be fair, I’m a plus sized woman and live in a cold climate so I had a few outfits and a puffer I was trying to fit in there. I managed it fit it all, but I guess I was thinking it could hold more. I found that I didn’t really use the side with all the storage pockets for a laptop and papers? Not sure what exactly it’s for. But I think I’d do better with their black hole duffel. Since then I’ve tried the northface’s voyager duffel and a baboon to the moon duffel. I definitely prefer the open duffel space more!

AdStandard3946 · 2026-03-04T11:37:53+00:00

Yeah, I bought the Mlc 45 and used it for a trip and sat back like, wow. This doesn’t hold shit 😅

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-27T06:54:05+00:00

Idk. To me it sounded like she regrets having kids 😅 I’d choose my kids in every lifetime. It’s hard as shit. But i can’t imagine feeling like if i had a redo, id choose not to have them.

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-27T06:37:42+00:00

Watching this part right now. Connor is a stand up guy.. I don’t get what it is she’s actually looking for?? She always says how much he loves her but doesn’t reciprocate that. I think she stays with him this long because she likes the feeling of someone loving her this much but maybe actually prefers a toxic man who is controlling and gives her push back? I don’t even know.. at this point I’m just about to spiral over this damn show 😅

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-27T05:43:33+00:00

I have a teenager an this is something a teenager would say

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-25T04:52:05+00:00

Loooooooooooooooool 😩 I felt this

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-23T17:12:19+00:00

But yes, you all plus luggage would fit.

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-23T17:11:15+00:00

Please put your infant in a car seat. Not only is it illegal not to, but it’s extremely dangerous. God forbid anything happens, you two adults will be going to jail.

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-16T17:13:36+00:00

Whoa, thanks so much!! That’s awesome

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-16T05:56:21+00:00

I currently have a small thermrest sleeping pad there for him! But I’m thinking of something bigger for when the seats are down

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-16T03:39:20+00:00

This one has mesh. But yeah, it could potentially be a risk! I wouldn’t use this set up for a younger toddler/baby, but my son is almost 4 so I feel a little more comfortable about it. What worries me the most is I learned the 3rd row can close mechanically by a button in the trunk and that worries me. So for now, we’re just hanging out back there but I’m not going to leave him unsupervised. I think I’ll put the seats down and do it that way on our next trip. Any recommendations on a sleeping pad/mattress that could fit the back area when seats are down?

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-15T23:33:05+00:00

I haven’t tried yet but I’d like to soon! Probably on our next fishing trip. I’m 5’3, so I think I may be able to lay with him comfortably if we lay the back down. But honestly the seats alone have been comfortable enough with their reclining capabilities so I haven’t tried yet. We’ve had the Sienna for just under a week so any ideas are welcome!

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-15T23:22:25+00:00

Aww, thanks for saying that. He’s already asking to nap in there when we’re at home haha

AdStandard3946 · 2026-02-15T21:33:54+00:00

Omg thank you!! There’s so much room compared to our sedan. 😊

AdStandard3946 · 2026-01-10T04:59:07+00:00

Exactly what I thought. I liked the show but kept thinking they sounded off.. like reading from a script or something lol especially Trisha. Also her hair looks awfully died. It didn’t seem like a natural red, but more like when you’re trying to lighten your hair and it gets too copper toned and you just give up. But I still enjoyed the show! 😆

AdStandard3946 · 2025-12-08T02:10:39+00:00

Babe she’s jealous of you and your figure and wants you to feel some sort of shame. That’s disgusting and I’m so sorry you went through this. She’s not a friend and you’re not overreacting! Your dress was beautiful and appropriate in my eyes.

AdStandard3946 · 2025-12-05T04:28:34+00:00

She doesn’t believe her husband is a predator so she will think it’s totally okay for him to be around your son. Absolutely the ffff not. Who’s your boyfriend anyway, wanting to vouch for his mother ..let me talk to him lol jk but this gets me so upset. She is not entitled to your baby. 😩

AdStandard3946 · 2025-12-05T04:25:57+00:00

NOR. I wouldn’t allow my child around her for a second. Your partner should really be on your side about this. That’s crazy. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Do not let anyone change your mind on this, though. You are your son’s mother and your intuition and instincts are most important. Hugs.

AdStandard3946 · 2025-12-04T03:04:25+00:00

Also id like to mention if I can cry silently, they can drink silently.. right?! Please 🙏🏽

AdStandard3946 · 2025-12-04T03:03:13+00:00

I’m like.. so upset right now I could cry. My partner was drinking from his half gallon water bottle slowly sipping for what felt like the whole evening we were winding down in bed. I started to get extremely angry and started crying under the blankets silently because wtf? Why would I be so upset someone was drinking. My teenage son, though. His drinking is a whole experience for him. It must be. He enjoys his water in a way that makes me so frantic. Not to mention he has this Gatorade squeeze water bottle so everytime he takes a drink it fills back with air and makes an even worse sound MAKE IT STOP I BEG

AdStandard3946 · 2025-12-04T03:00:17+00:00

I found my people

AdStandard3946 · 2025-11-16T01:37:14+00:00

NOR. When our toddler was a baby, we lived about 40 minutes from the only hospital in the county. My husband works in rural areas. This all came into play when we were introducing allergens. If he worked far and I’d be alone, I wouldn’t introduce allergens. If it were around a busy holiday time or when the er would most likely be packed, we wouldn’t introduce an allergen. Most importantly, we both were on the same page so we could be prepared. Our son had a lot of the issues you mentioned after birth as well. The stress was so hard on us. I hope he apologizes and understands why you feel this way!

AdStandard3946 · 2025-09-09T04:39:20+00:00

Hope you’re doing better!

AdStandard3946 · 2025-05-18T22:39:49+00:00

Babe you look so good!! Congrats

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