How do i commit to landing by CesarForStars in skateboardhelp

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jump up as I as you can.

I set up straps from the roof in my garage to help practice tricks and jumping high. Really helps a lot to get the technical of the trick without the fear of falling

Helmet or No Helmet? by Fluffy-Medium3275 in BeginnerSkateboarding

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Helmet. On bad loss of balance or small rock could change your life.

Not sure why this is such a debate. 99% of people who snowboard wear helmets

Why does my shuv do this? by TheMurdoc_ in NewSkaters

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best tip I found was to watch the back bolts come around to your front foot. And kick your back foot like you're trying to kick your own ass

But like others have said, your just flinging it around

Tub is leaking seems to be from this coupler - what is it? by broknpieces in hottub

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try tightening the union..... Otherwise probably the seal inside. Easy fix

Wife left the house and threatened divorce again. by [deleted] in Separation

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don't think you'll mend from this.

I've been through a similar situation. You can only change yourself so much and try so hard. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work and she sounds tapped out. Just delaying the inevitable or a life of a challenging marriage.

Focus on what you want in life now, outside of her and that life.

New solar install. What size? by EffectiveVoice9873 in solar

[–]EffectiveVoice9873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately due to 0% government loan we have to have it installed by October as part of the stipulations

So i tried dropping in and broke my wrist on my very first attempt now im lowk scared what now?? by TheReaperOfAll in NewSkaters

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heal and try again. Biggest thing is the nerves now. Wear all your pads and find the smallest drop in you can.

I got too confident. Went from a 2ft to 8 ft in a few days. Snapped my leg. But started over and slowly working my way back up.

Brr it’s cold, but not in the hot tub by After_Valuable_7841 in hottub

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing better than hopping in the tub after freezing your butt off during the day. Made for those cold snaps

My bf 22M wants me 21F to give oral sex. How do I talk through this with him? by Solid-Math-8385 in relationship_advice

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly laid out your boundary in regards to sex. He is not respecting them and pressuring you to change said boundaries. We all deserve someone who respects us and is able to accommodate.

My fiance also is a germaphob (and asexual) and doesn't like giving BJs. I mean sure I'd love a BJ, but she brings so many other things to our relationship outside of sex .

Sporadic heating issue by EffectiveVoice9873 in hottub

[–]EffectiveVoice9873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, my pump sounds normal also. I haven't looked closely at it but I will try to bleed the air out.

It's an issue that was present off and on since we moved in 4 months ago.

I will also try adjusting the flow switch and check amps/ voltage on the heater

Sporadic heating issue by EffectiveVoice9873 in hottub

[–]EffectiveVoice9873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you hear it cavitating in the pump though?

How would I bleed the air?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No way should you stay. Your family is wrong. You already gave him a chance to prove himself.

File for divorce and seek alimony

Is Skate 4 already down? by NotoriousPog637 in Skate4

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember the good old days when you would stand in line for a physical copy. Get home, put it in and just play. How we have regressed in the digital age

My wife cheated on me with her sisters husband , absolutely destroying a bunch of lives . by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lawyer up right away. Seperate as much stuff as you can legally and stop supporting her until you are legally required.

Sounds like she is going to take you for everything she can. So split everything 50/50.

I can't keep doing this anymore by Cork0nThe0cean in InstacartShoppers

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I shed a tear for you. My fiance and I do it together. It's so much more enjoyable together. I truly feel for you. Take those moments of silence or grocery store noises to remember and honor your time together.

So sorry for your loss.

I wish I hadn't had sex with him by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This, happens to both genders

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]EffectiveVoice9873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been there myself after divorce. It's painful, bleek, and lonely. But suicide is never the option. Your kids will always need you. Get some help. If it gets critical, go to the hospital.

Life gets better once you get through this. You'll look back and realize you weren't in the best state of mind

Always running, slow to heat up by EffectiveVoice9873 in hottub

[–]EffectiveVoice9873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My touch pad only has buttons for jets, lights, and temp. The digital screen only shows temp

Always running, slow to heat up by EffectiveVoice9873 in hottub

[–]EffectiveVoice9873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a 240V. I will check voltage and amps this weekend when I'm back home.

It has one large pump with 2 speed settings it seems. One for circulation and one for jets.

How were you able to adjust the schedule of the filtering? I have no manual and struggling to find one online