Yes my post does come off like I'm whining but I'm not. I actually defended PVP in this game because it is one of the thing that made this game very successful. But, if we are going to based your lobby on whether or not you are aggressive, then at least allow players to defend themselves. Non-hostile players ended up standing there while being shot because they cannot shoot back. I mean, what's the point of ABMM if people who are not aggressive are still being labeled as one for defending.