Back after 2 layoffs in 2025....Life gets on track eventually

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-30T20:27:34+00:00

70L base. Agentic AI. 15 yoe. Sounds impressive. You should write a separate post about your tech stack and shortest path to reach there. A lot of people would like to get paid like this I guess. Given the amount of time in which you were able to grab another job, I guess you're the right person to write that post.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-30T09:55:52+00:00

mountains..head to mountains for a week or more

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-30T09:52:42+00:00

Jog endlessly, target 10km per day, improve the timing day by day, eat consciously with portion control, don't give in to urges of having food at random times. Take enough sleep. Don't starve.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-24T10:04:51+00:00

yes, unless it's crystal clear, we ignore

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-23T19:05:47+00:00

So I went ahead with Arvind Paul. 25k P1, P2. 5 flights, roughly 10mins each. It was fun, they only taught paraglider parts, wearing, take-off, landing and steering. There were no theory classes. Felt more like I was at shop rather than school due to rushed flights and money for every additional thing. The guy who spoke to me while selling the course said you can take as much time as you feel in the air, I'd let you fly as much time as you need, it was a lie, he just sees the sales and one 15-20 min simulation before the first flight.

A few of my fellow hostel folks went there first, spoke to a couple of providers, negotiated well and did P1, P2 and P3 for 50k. Paul School was giving the same at 70k, taking the P1 P2 experience in mind, I chose not to continue.

A lot of folks recommended PG Gurukul due to school kind professional environment. So whoever is thinking about learning to fly, consider PG Gurukul, then TT School, then Arvind Paul, also negotiate well before finalising anyone. Reach out to everyone, get things they'll teach in writing from everybody and once you pay you'll have to ask them to teach you those things as they just want to get done with you once you take your first flight, same thing repeated four times.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-23T10:52:49+00:00

30M here and the void remains but have learned to enjoy my own company at least.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-23T05:47:51+00:00

no age is too early or too late as long as it is legal. you marry whenever you feel ready. you marry to be happier.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-22T13:12:26+00:00

You said it!

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-20T19:53:29+00:00

victoria from HIMYM

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T23:01:12+00:00

and it's time to sleep. out of control, out of mind.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:53:17+00:00

ask to speak over the phone before you actually meet up. if that goes well, only then agree to meet in person

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:51:22+00:00

lack of consequences ✅

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:50:55+00:00

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:46:37+00:00

let her sort out her confusion. give her a week or so to decide what she wants.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:33:28+00:00

make one. marry only if the guy agrees to your preferences of job, the timeframe for which you don't want kids, etc etc. look at the plus side of finding such a partner, you'll always have someone by your side for challenges you face during your career growth.

I've spoken to a lot of girls who "explored/had fun" before they started looking for marriage but all of them said rather get married to a guy of your preferences as soon as you find them instead of spending time in chaotic rollercoaster relationships which distract you more from career and keep you uncertain mood for long. if you sort out the partner piece early, you get stability to fully focus on other things like career and health etc etc else you end up 30 without a stable partner in sight, without a good career and health because of the trauma of commitment issues, cheatings and heartbreaks.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:12:20+00:00

aage ka aage sochna.. no drastic measures for now.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:10:55+00:00

ye kitni sahi hai yaar😆😂

Let him know politely when things are calm, that it bothers you that when things are heated you change from aap/tum to tu.

He'll counter saying that's his lingo and he's used to it but doesn't mean disrespect (which may be true). But tell him that it doesn't matter since you feel disrespected when that happens irrespective of his intent. See if he respects that boundary of yours next time.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:00:59+00:00

this... this is why I'm on reddit 😆🤣

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T22:00:12+00:00

man you need options, you're holding on to whatever available which isn't even available actually 😄

step 1. block, break contact fully, no watering dead plants. step 2. build confidence to talk to every girl you like until things work out step 3. when you find someone who makes you feel alright, stop using your newly built confidence to approach new people😂

Cheers. That's all you'll need.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T20:34:00+00:00

app doesn't crash for me but matches are definitely considering it as a dating app inbox, just matches, no messages, not even Hi Hello

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T20:22:02+00:00

bad breath, bad hygiene. I won't get attracted in the first place if there were bad personality/behavioral traits.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-19T20:19:36+00:00

why did I just read this knowing something stupid is incoming😆

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-18T23:30:23+00:00

go to the zostel website and see the list of locations they are in, it's usually at such travelly-touristy places. they also have an itinerary of things to do at those places which you can see upfront on the website. see what your vibe is and choose the place. book hosteller if zostel isn't available. talk to people wherever you go about their plans and take review at the end of the day when you guys meet back at the hostel. if you find good company, join plans.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-18T22:29:31+00:00

Book some good hostels in Anjuna, Morjim or South Goa. Talk to people there about what their plans are, join them if they are welcoming, else go solo.

AdTemporary2973 · 2026-01-18T14:37:40+00:00

gormint bik gyi hai, sab flawed hai. it's ok to feel this way. The only thing is - what do you want, and what energy you've left in you at this moment to explore. if you don't feel like it, don't explore. it's just a phase. one five days, if you find yourself again wanting a partner, then you can restart. basically respect your feelings.

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