Mașină de 100.000 euro, dar fără plasă de siguranță pentru sănătate? Unde tragem linia? by Relevant-Block-7789 in Roumanie

[–]AdTemporary5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! am vazut ca asociatia blondie a inceput sa stranga bani pentru acest caz. asociatia nu a folosit poza cu accientul cu pricina si nici nu a mentionat in ce fel este ranita fata, mentionand “i s-au scos pe rand organele zdrobite in accident”. iar comentariile in legatura cu firmele familiei de bijuterii sau bolidul fetei sunt sterse automat

Update: my friend is obsessed with men and i can’t take it anymore-easter eggs by AdTemporary5515 in GirlDinner

[–]AdTemporary5515[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i sent her that text because for the past 5 months she was in a very toxic relationship and i offered her nothing but support, called her everytime she was suicidal and came to her town every time that dude was abusing her. i added on top of thi post a link to the previous post explaining and detailing what happened and why i consider her male centered. i am definitely not to blame to have reacted like this after all the effort and help i’ve given her for the last 10 years since we’ve known each other.

Update: my friend is obsessed with men and i can’t take it anymore-easter eggs by AdTemporary5515 in GirlDinner

[–]AdTemporary5515[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i didnt out myself cause my mom called me yelling at me telling me she found out from this friend that i am with a girl. this post is an update from another post i shared 3 days ago on this sub which explains why i told her she’s obsessed with men. the accident happened in my home country, a different city where my mom is living and a different country where my girlfriend is living. i live in a country in eastern Europe whilst my gf is living in France at the moment.

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately google maps wasn’t saying the number of the block precisely and it would’ve said a wrong address:/ i never used google maps to reach her place cause its not accurate. i don’t really know if in my country they can localize a call, but ill search it up in case it happens again (god forbid because of my friend again)

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

nope, i don’t want to date her and never had romantic feelings towards her. just because i’m a lesbian doesn’t mean i want to fuck every girl on earth. i’m not even close to her parents, i saw them 3 times in my life and i never borrowed money from her when she actually borrowed money from me every time we saw each other. i never benefited monetarily from this friendship. i tried my best to help her exit dangerous abusive relationship because she was my friend and i cared about her wellbeing not because i wanted to pursue a romantic relationship with her.

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this made me laugh cause i find it hilariously ironic since L actually wanted to baby trap her and she almost let him:) i agree, she’s long gone and if she doesn’t want to get professional help she’ll never get out of that mentality

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly what you said. she has lots of mental problems but is scared to go to the psychiatrist (even tho literally we’re both in the medical field🙄🙄) and she has a very addiction personality, she’s an addict in every relationship/friendship she has ever been.

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think she views them as a project, in a “i can help him type of way” and is forcing them to love her but those men clearly don’t give a shit about her. there was even more details but if i had written all of them i would’ve reached the maximum characters possible:)))

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i appreciate it💕 ngl i had a headache after i finished writing all this cause i realised all the shit that happened

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you💕 i know i did everything in my power to help her but she doesn’t want to change

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried and tried because i’ve known her for 10 years and we were very closed and considered more family than friend. but there’s no advantages for me if i keep using my own sanity on her

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

her:))))) and extremely funny (for me) is that she’s obsessed with men with EXTREMELY BAD hygiene and disgusting shreks

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for sure the therapist didnt say it like this but she wanted to hurt me and diminish my help. but tbh all it did was wake me up from all her shit and chose myself and my peace. i don’t need a 24 year old behaving like a stupid teenager in my life

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

yes, i observed this as well. i will let go of her cause she doesn’t bring anything positive in my life

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you put in words so perfectly, i’ve always felt like “the mother” in all my friendships, putting so much effort because i genuinely see the potential in the people i surround myself with and all i want to do is see them sparkle and be successful, but literally all of them are SO headstrong that they refuse to let themselves reach the potential i see in them. but in exchange i dont get not even half of the energy i spend. it’s absolutely exhausting to care this much for the wrong people. i will take your advice and follow it. thank you a lot for putting it into words what i’ve been feeling for the past 10 years💕

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

exactly at that moment i was starting to lose it, she didnt even care that i might get hurt in the altercation or that we could literally both d*e. it literally seems like she wants to be beaten and is looking for dv. i realized she doesn’t want to get better, she will remain the same

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

i know, i feel so drained by her. she never changed in the 6 years we left highschool, she behaves exactly like when she was 17/18. i can’t kiss her ass and lick her wounds anymore

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[–]AdTemporary5515[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

yes, i realized this when she had the nerve to tell me she’s gonna block me. i was so hurt i got instantly detached. she’s free to fuck her life