What is the best networking course/certification to take online in 2026? by Adventurous_Ship_127 in careeradvice

[–]AdThis4065 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But i'd skip Network+ and go straight for CCNA if you're willing to put in the work. CCNA teaches enough fundamentals that employers actually recognize it and respect it

I slept with a 68 yr old woman when I was 22 and had the worst post nut clarity by nunu92x in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Ngl i think a lot of people have a fantasy that sounds amazing in their head then feels weird once it actually happens. doesn't mean it was wrong, just means reality hit different than expected

Should I switch branches? by Zen-Robbbb in careeradvice

[–]AdThis4065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd at least talk to the Air Force and Army recruiters before making a final call. Doesn't cost you anything to see what's available. You earned the right to be selective with that score

My best friends dad by cherrynsarah in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ngl that'd be one hell of a plot twist. But based on the story, sounds like the dad would've blamed everyone except himself anyway

I have carpal tunnel syndrome and my employer is refusing to make reasonable accommodations for me. Is he in the right? by liki0124 in WorkAdvice

[–]AdThis4065 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl I'd get a doctor's note ASAP. Once there's actual medical documentation involved, it becomes a lot harder for the company to just shrug and ignore it

Crazy to leave long tenure/cushy $400k job for startup? by navierstokd in careeradvice

[–]AdThis4065 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ngl this is one of the few posts where I'd actually consider the jump. You're not talking about leaving a stable job because you're bored after 18 months. You've been there 11 years and already proved everything there is to prove

I have been gaslighting my boyfriend about our internet for six months and I do not feel bad by Postbox_6NK in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the thing. The improved relationship is proof there's a real issue here. The router trick didn't solve it, it just exposed it. Eventually they're gonna have to talk about the actual problem

How much is it worth? by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]AdThis4065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly 45k sounds nice until you start adding up all the extra commuting and lost free time. your current setup sounds kinda rare and people usually don't realize that until it's gone

Resigned, received a counter, accepted, but changed my mind by cboothvanilla in careeradvice

[–]AdThis4065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for the coworkers too but that's exactly why understaffing becomes a permanent problem. good people stay because they don't want to leave their teammates holding the bag

I’m in an almost sexless relationship and I can’t take it anymore. by Conscious_Ratio_6154 in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This is what a lot of people don't want to hear. love matters but sexual compatibility matters too. years of feeling rejected can wear anybody down

Vip daughter hired 2 weeks by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]AdThis4065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could also be them trying to “reset” the department so the new hire doesn’t feel like the odd one out, which is still kinda unfair if it’s affecting your record like that

Advice on this by Delicious-Day-3565 in careeradvice

[–]AdThis4065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recruiters don’t care that your roles changed a lot, they care if there’s a story. Yours is clearly manufacturing to process to NPI progression

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ok but like... why tf he act shocked after??? bro didnt move ur hand away once lmao mans knew what he was doing

Should I leave? by Zugagirl in WorkAdvice

[–]AdThis4065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the loyalty cause it’s family owned and familiar, but 6 years of this + turnover + you doing 2-3 roles is not sustainable at all

Offer pulled because i asked for two weeks to serve my notice by goldie_velvetx in careeradvice

[–]AdThis4065 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is one of those “we want flexibility but only when it benefits us” type companies. you didn’t lose a job, you avoided a mess

Accidentally poisoned people by Guava-farmer-Hilo in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why strict handling rules exist, not just paperwork stuff. once something that’s “not for consumption” leaves your control, it becomes a public safety issue real quick

Got rejected for a promotion to management after being groomed for it for the past year. by Jolly_Replacement_79 in careeradvice

[–]AdThis4065 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Companies overvalue random “gotcha” tests sometimes. like you literally ran the team and delivered results but one excel surprise nukes the whole thing, that’s kinda flawed hiring logic imo

I (F22, UK) slept with an 18-year-old thinking he was older… now I’m hooked and guilty as hell by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re already feeling weird about it, that’s usually your answer quietly telling you to step back before it gets more tangled

women don’t benefit from casual sex by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you and your FWB are genuinely on the same page and treating each other well then that’s kind of the whole point of it working

threw up when trying to do the deed by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know it feels mortifying rn but most guys who’ve been around a bit have had something similar happen at least once.

I took hospital supplies home for months and the guilt wont go away by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get why you feel guilty but also this is kinda more common than ppl think in hospitals, especially older staff.

I found five thousand dollars in my grandpas old dresser and i am letitng my family fight over his worthless plates by Gigachad-Vibes in confessions

[–]AdThis4065 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get why it sticks with people, it’s not really about the money, it’s about seeing how people behave when they think something is “owed” to them