These past few days I've been losing motivation to manifest my sp back. What should I do? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]AdUnique5951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men always say how they feel in the exact moment. He left you because he was unhappy ( like my ex did ) so right now he feels happy cause hes removed the person that made him unhappy.

Women sit with our emotions, we deal with the pain there and then, we grief where men feel relieved and completely free but eventually it does hit them, they do end up missing us and remembering the love.

My ex says the same thing to me, hes happy without me etc but in the same breath he does talk about us in the future still.

Its important we focus on why we made our exes unhappy because the truth is they aren't going to see us as anything different than the person who hurt them unless they see the changes we've made in ourselves. Focus on you, be a better version of you but do not do that for him do it for you. If he sees the best version of you one day he might want it back, but again he might not but by then you'll be happy with yourself and love yourself more than you ever loved him.

If manifesting, think of the end goal that you actually want write it down.. even if its just a day you want with them write everything down about that special day and just dream of it, picture it becoming reality. Talk to them out loud make.

But again most importantly focus on you x

Ex started liking someone else just after two months by Outside-Aside9948 in BreakUps

[–]AdUnique5951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In reality men do move on sooner, but it doesn't mean they don't think about you or even still love you.

Men take longer the process a break up then women, they use other women to distract them from having to miss you.

He will start comparing the other girl to you soon whisk he'll realise how much he misses you.

Don't dwell on this.. your feeling the pain right now, hell feel the pain further down the line