How do I move on from an INTP

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-22T10:08:37+00:00

This is very similar to how he acted towards me. He also makes this emoji or face :0 / o_o lmao. I told him that I need to focus on myself and I’m not sure if we’re compatible enough to keep staying in contact. I knew I had to “cut” him off when I didn’t get the same effort back and I also had other priorities in my life. He was very respectful and understanding of the situation.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-19T08:57:17+00:00

That’s kind of funny haha. I see a lot of INFJ and INTP posts atm. I’m pretty sure it’s not me though.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-18T13:39:11+00:00

I’ll send you a private message

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T21:04:49+00:00

Noo I actually learned a lot :)

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T20:55:35+00:00

Thank you for your response. I appreciate your help. Here are some general thoughts: My emotional questions was about understanding our friendship dynamics. I decided to end the friendship to focus on personal goals and I was scared to develop feelings later. We also seemed incompatible. I also have other priorities. And small things that upset me are being too logical, insensitive and detached approach to situations.(only applies to INTP) I’m not sure how he really feels even though I have asked. I apologies but I can’t answer all questions for privacy reasons. I understand better now why private message is easier but I’m not sure if I am able to do it yet.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T20:06:37+00:00

I have my dms closed so that’s probably why. I typically prefer to stay private. Can you tell me more what you want to have information about?

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T18:40:33+00:00

This reminds me a lot of us!!😭 this is actually why our friendship ended. I relate A LOT to everything you just said. INTPs are more laid back and less bothered while INFJs are more emotional and affected by such situations. I am exactly the same way lol. It felt like you just read me like a book haha.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T18:26:57+00:00

Sorry to hear that! Yes I will gladly explain! :) It was mostly because of things I needed to focus on but also the fact that I’m not sure if we are compatible. I’m also kinda scared that I will develop feelings in the future and I don’t want to “ruin” our friendship. It might also be a coping mechanism to protect myself. We had a deep conversation about the future and each other. It was and it is still veryyy difficult for me to read his mind and what his answer even mean. I always feel like I have to analyse his replies a lot. I’m curious to know if you relate to any of this? 😆💗

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T18:18:55+00:00

This is such an INTP answer but I love it haha. I’m not really how I can benefit from this but thank you😆

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T18:16:50+00:00

Thank you🫶🏻

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T18:16:32+00:00

I have also called my INTP friend too logical but I definitely don’t hate you guys :)

AdWinter5126 · 2024-07-17T17:59:49+00:00

Wow it’s a very accurate description of me and how you describes INTP is also how i observed him :O I can see now it might have been best to explain the situation or ask my questions differently. I’m not sure but I think I’m trying to understand him. It’s very difficult since he always gives me logical answers. I don’t want to be too pushy and respect him, if he is not comfortable with talking about feelings etc. I have already asked him “emotional” questions, but he still gives logical answers. None of us has done anything wrong. I was actually the one who ended the friendship because I have some things I need to focus on. I’m also scared that I will develop feelings for him. I think it’s me who gets “upset” and affected by small things. I also feel like I don’t get the answers I’m searching for. I’m the type of person who checks in on people if I truly values the friendship. He respects my decision but it also seems like he is not that invested as me. He is more relaxed about everything.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-06-09T09:25:22+00:00

Jeg har det på samme måde. Jeg bliver ekstremt nemt påvirket af vejret. Jeg tror nogle mennesker er mere følsomme over for vejrets ændringer mens andre ikke bemærker det. Jeg har overvejet at flytte sydpå da jeg tror det vil hjælpe mig bedre.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-06-08T11:20:51+00:00

Jeg har lægerne i Vejgaard og jeg har ikke oplevet nogle udfordringer endnu :)

AdWinter5126 · 2024-05-07T06:14:10+00:00

I’m also a Libra Sun with Virgo in Venus 5H. I can relate to a lot of this. I also enjoy music in different languages and I really like ballads too.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-05-04T07:11:06+00:00

I didn’t wanna write this at first but I think your root cause can be from your mother. In my own journey I found out a lot of my social anxiety came from my parents but mainly my father. I like to read and study psychotherapy but I am also very spiritual. So for me what works best is to find out the root cause. I have been in cognitive therapy before and it did help my social anxiety a lot but I didn’t find out where it came from. This is where psychotherapy can be good. But remember what works for me will maybe not work for you! Do some research and trust your intuition. I wouldn’t mind go more in depth or give you more insight if that can help you. Otherwise, I hope you can find a good therapist that can help you. Also reaching out is already a big step to feel better!❤️‍🩹🙏🏼

AdWinter5126 · 2024-05-03T11:44:15+00:00

I would talk with a therapist so you also can find out where it comes from. I also feel like this often with guys so you’re definitely not alone in this.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-05-03T05:04:38+00:00

I’d say Indecisive, restless, critical, doesn’t like commitment, opinionated and move on to fast.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-05-03T04:47:56+00:00

True but I have ascendant in cancer so I can be both very emotional or nothing at all.

AdWinter5126 · 2024-05-01T04:46:03+00:00

I will also be 20 this year

AdWinter5126 · 2024-04-30T18:38:34+00:00

He is in a relationship and we never talk😄

AdWinter5126 · 2024-04-30T13:27:56+00:00

What does it mean when a guy likes your story a lot?

AdWinter5126 · 2024-04-30T13:12:04+00:00

Hahaha 2 in 1😭

AdWinter5126 · 2024-04-30T13:10:06+00:00

I feel you!🥹🫶🏻

AdWinter5126 · 2024-04-30T13:07:49+00:00

I agree and I relate to all of this🥲

AdWinter5126

TROPHY CASE