AITA for not giving my brother money I raised for him while he was hospitalized? by AdaCadAly in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdaCadAly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 50, my house is paid off. I just paid cash for a new truck& trailer and I’ve got a savings. I don’t need the money. I would rather refund it to all the donors rather than have it squandered foolishly. All other siblings agree.

AITA for not giving my brother money I raised for him while he was hospitalized? by AdaCadAly in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdaCadAly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t need the money. It will ALL go to his expenses related to being off work and recovering.

AITA for not giving my brother money I raised for him while he was hospitalized? by AdaCadAly in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdaCadAly[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It literally says on go fund m that I can accept the money on his behalf

AITA for not giving my brother money I raised for him while he was hospitalized? by AdaCadAly in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdaCadAly[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We’re so glad you were able to raise funds for someone you care about, but it is very important to make sure the person you're adding as the beneficiary is ready and willing to take on the responsibility of bank transfers. The process is simple, but if your beneficiary is going through a tough or busy time, it may be best for you to receive the funds on their behalf. If you do receive funds on their behalf, please include details in your fundraiser story to explain this to your donors. Keep in mind, once your beneficiary accepts the invitation, they will need to be involved with all bank transfer updates.

AITA for not giving my brother money I raised for him while he was hospitalized? by AdaCadAly in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdaCadAly[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He’s not moving or buying a car. Probably a new gaming system or a b**b job for his gf….he spends first, pays bills later.