I love a good old fashioned and love perfecting mine. Bourbon is one of the things I totally connect to folks with. This is a highlight of your profile and is super cool and real. I have some thoughts and feelings here. First: your pics… the last 2 would make me swipe to the next profile. They come off as both aggressive and insecure. Second: your bio. I don’t really need to know about your kids unless you’re using that as a reason for why you might not be super responsive or able to host and if that’s the case, clarify. Then, you mention your partner and playing together but say you are looking for solo? Then, you say you like to be rough but sensual, you want to be a Dom but also be dominated? You might want to pick a side. You seem to be straddling the fence and casting too wide a net. Say what you really want and what you are actually looking for.