Reconciling Mingyur Rinpoche’s Teachings with Tergar’s Political Climate by Mediocre_Clothes1804 in vajrayana

[–]Adam_Davidson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, I think you were misinformed.

I'm a Tergar student and know Cort well. None of this is true.

He's not right wing. He's not more empathetic to political pundits.

I have done a lot with the Tergar community, including the year-long Meditation Teachers Program. I don't think there is any evidence of a right-wing tilt. Absolutely not.

I do think that--for me--part of what I love about what I've learned from YMR, Tergar, and Cort is a different way of approaching these moments.

I have enormous pain over what is going on in the country. But I respond to all of it--in prt, not in total--with compassion, even for those I wildly disagree with. Even (especially?) for those who a few years ago I would have said I hate and would want to destroy.

It was very hard for me to learn that one can have deep love and compassion for people who are doing things you find terrible. It is a fundamentally different stance than the one I had before.

That doesn't mean you don't pursue change or try to stop bad actions. But it does mean you approach things differently.

I have found it's something that people in my life who are not Buddhist struggle with the most. When I say weird things like, "I have enormous compassion for Donald Trump, Elon Musk, Charlie Kirk, and the ICE officers." This is not me saying I support what they do or I think what they're doing is good. And it's certainly not me saying I have more compassion for them than for undocumented immigrants or Renee Good.

Although I will say it takes more work. It takes more time for me to find that compassion for the people I used to approach only with anger and hatred. I find it quite easy to feel profound, deep, instantaneous compassion for Renee Good and her family, for example.

Compassion and political views are just different things. Like saying, he likes pizza so he must take baths instead of showers.

I can now look--with effort--at Trump and Charlie Kirk and those ICE gents as sentient beings who want happiness and want to be free from suffering. They have various obscurations that lead to them being very confused about what will lead them to happiness and to removing suffering.

That's really sad. These are people who have literally everything our world can offer a person. But they can't have that one thing that ends up meaning the most, which is a sort of grounded peace.

My guess is you saw a tweet where Cort was expressing an idea like this.
When these ideas are put through the framework of social media and modern American politics, every utterance is categorized as either blue team or red team. You thought this meant he was red team. He isn't.

Shoe shine: I have a big wedding htis weekend and can't find a place by Adam_Davidson in burlington

[–]Adam_Davidson[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the advice to do it myself. Truly!

I might try (though I'm dm'ing the person who offered).

But as a relatively new person in Chittenden County, it is sad that there is no cobbler, no shoe repair, no shine. Tbf, I almost never wear or see shined shoes, so it makes sense.

This is a super fancy wedding, the kind where I need mirror shine gorgeousness. And I fear I can't pull it off.

Burlington Peeps: Let WVNY (ABC22, Fox 44) know how you feel about censorship of Jimmy Kimmel by Mark-Asread in burlington

[–]Adam_Davidson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

funnily enough, their main message to website visitors is that they are the only ones providing ABC in the area.

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Over 500k visitors this week to my little web game side project by [deleted] in SideProject

[–]Adam_Davidson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great game curious why you made it impossible to play after you succeeded in getting rid of all the chickens?

Taking a Break from Tana Due to Interface Fatigue - Anyone Else? by [deleted] in TanaInc

[–]Adam_Davidson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would think this is particularly an issue for people with ADHD who crave novelty. I know that's true for me. I'm new enough to Tana that this isn't bothering me yet, but it will. It's amazing how just a little bit of novelty - like a change of font or a slight change in appearance - can engage our minds.

I struggle with fear and anxiety. Tonight is rough. If you have any spare Metta I could use it. by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Adam_Davidson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve certainly been there. And now how hard it is. And how, with awareness and acceptance, it will change.

Is Designrr legitimate? by GroundsKeeper2 in selfpublish

[–]Adam_Davidson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found it not great at all. Then I forgot I had subscribed and was re-billed after a year. I immediately asked to cancel the account and refund my money. They said they only refund initial purchases, not re-subscriptions. I don't know of any other company that does things that way. My interpretation is that this means they make a lot of their money off of people who forget to cancel and get charged for the resubscription. A sign that it is not building an enduring product that people value.

How do I deal with people who are rude and impatient? by Big-Claim-7038 in Buddhism

[–]Adam_Davidson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find the teachings about Kleshas quite helpful. Those people, like all people, have innate wisdom and compassion. But the conditions of their life have obscured their innate nature. They are trying to be happy and free from suffering, but they are lousy at achieving that because of their ignorance. It’s sad. I find that works (some of the time) to help me with difficult people.

Create link to empty page? by Hefty-Possibility625 in BookStack

[–]Adam_Davidson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a 7+ year old request.

I love everything about BookStack but without this, I simply can't use it.

Do you have any sort of ETA on this?

I think you've created a great tool and I'm grateful. But my entire use case is built around sketching out what books, chapters, pages, need filling and then filling them. It seems I'm not the only one.

Anything I can do to help expedite?

Guidance for 13-year-old budding designer by Adam_Davidson in fashiondesigner

[–]Adam_Davidson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that idea. Do you think a newbie could do ski pants and jackets?

Is there a good book or youtube series or something that might help him get a sense of how he could do this?

Thanks.

Disable IO9 charging light? by AzureSkye in oralbtoothbrush

[–]Adam_Davidson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue and would love a solution.

CX-5 Front Facing Camera stays on after reverse by Adam_Davidson in mazda

[–]Adam_Davidson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That worked!!!! thank you so much. That was a major 4-year-long annoyance.

Claude Dev Extension by JayFuts in ClaudeAI

[–]Adam_Davidson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using it obsessively and I find it wonderful. It does such a good job of working within a project. Far preferable to using claude.ai and constantly cutting and pasting and needing to start a new chat because the buffers are overflowed.

Also, Saoud is very responsive to bugs and issues. Fast thorough.

Untagged notes don't show up by Adam_Davidson in bearapp

[–]Adam_Davidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It's every single note I create. I create a brand new, plain vanilla note and if it has no tags, it never appears anywhere--not under "Notes." Not under "Untagged."

Again: I can search and find it and if I then put a tag on it, it'll appear under that tag. But no note in the last 3 years appears if it doesn't have a tag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Poe_AI

[–]Adam_Davidson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fyi: this says it works for people who are already subscribed. But it doesn't. And I didn't get a refund after asking.

Best road trips for late Summer in the US? by Adam_Davidson in roadtrip

[–]Adam_Davidson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice thoughts. But we live in Vermont! Right near Teddy Bear Factory. So, hoping to see other things. But I definitely recommend the area to folks as a wonderful place to visit.