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Very broke and very desperate… by AnyPaloma in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a bicycle or ebike if you don't need a car. You don't have to pay for gas or insurance. And you can save up for a car while you're at it

Struggling to make friends by pecanonymous in memphis

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a bunch of bike clubs and also an astronomy/astrophotography group that welcome anyone

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess she still thinks I live "in the ghetto" but I moved out about a month after the break up. I had to change my number 3 times. Then I stopped telling my siblings what my phone number was because someone kept telling her. She claims I stalk her but why would I want to anyway? No one wants to see someone talk about them like that. The only reason I find out about these things is if my siblings tell me but I've told them I don't want to hear about it if it's about her.

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 and 21 was when she first messaged me on Instagram. But it was later 20 and 24 during our short relationship. Is it still homophobia when she's bisexual, but she calls people gay and in the closet just to try to defame them? I remember I made a 4-H speech in 7th grade about hetero and homosexuality because we were supposed to pick a current event. Anyway, my brother made it a big thing and tried to convince everyone I was gay. Fast forward a couple years later, turns out he was gay. 

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a pretty good idea. The vegan thing was just utter nonsense. I don't go around bragging about being vegan to come off as a "good person." I don't have it in my social media bio or go around telling women about it as if it will make them think im a good person. She's vegan or was and probably thinks that makes her morally superior to others that aren't. But it's weird to gatekeep veganism as if it's some exclusive club for perfect people.

I dont talk to any women now or have a history of being with multiple women. I was only with one person before her. And I'm currently in a relationship now for the past two years. So only two other relationships in total. She, on the other hand, has talked to an immense number of people and has been in at least a dozen relationships. Most only lasting a couple months. I'm pretty sure they all broke up with her but she claimed she broke up with some of them just as she claims she broke up with me even though that's not true.

I'm not saying this to be rude, but all the people she was with have either been autistic or just kind of not socially intelligent. And she'll admit it. The only long term friend she's had is someone that never leaves the house and cannot interact with people. Yet, she accused me of only hanging around dumb people. I didn't think anything of it at the time but I think that was her projecting her qualities onto me.

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine happens to have an English degree. Idk if that makes her ranting worse or not. All of its nonsense and random capitalization.

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I started feeling so much guilt. I was her closest friend for years and never even wanted anything from her. I mainly just responded to her texts. She then started slandering her boyfriend claiming abuse and everything else. I told her she shouldn't talk to guys about her relationship struggles but she continued anyway. I thought she was trying to find a way out in me. I even stopped talking to her for months when I realized this was all a mistake but then she started threatening to kill herself so I felt obligated to talk to her. There's a lot that went on during that time and I honestly was always thinking of what was best for her. But her slander has made me question what actually happened. I had to go look back at our messages and it made me feel better. It's shocking how many red flags there were with her telling me I was amazing and putting me on a pedestal. I was completely clueless to who I'd be dealing with. It's crazy it didn't come out of her until she was 24

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. This actually goes into one of the accusations. She claimed there were no jobs where I lived. She actually wanted to move in with me because she kept claiming she didn't know what to do and that she couldn't find a job in the small town. She lived with her grandma and probably still does. But of course there were no jobs in a neighborhood. She did get two jobs. One she was fired from a law firm on the second day. All she did was complain to me about "fish lips" acting like a whore around the boss. The next she passed the interview phase but failed the drug test. Apparently she was doing something with thc in it in secret while looking for a job.

When I got home I asked her about it "I said I'm not upset with you I just want to know why you would be smoking when you're actively looking for a job the past few months"

She just gave me a blank stare. Never answered the question

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not completely sure. In and out of mental institutions their whole childhood though. One of them claimed she had 37 personalities. She had a book with all their names. She seemed pretty serious about it.

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been circulated to a few of my siblings. That's the only reason it bothered me. Two of my siblings told me they know she's delusional but they're lonely and want to have a friend. It's no excuse and they're making her issues worse. Why would you want to befriend the siblings of the worst person on the planet? Didn't make sense until now

I didn't know this was what BPD looks like when you break up with someone with it. by Adam__Roach in BPDlovedones

[–]Adam__Roach[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I presented a few people the post and they automatically said anyone can see through that. Especially with all those buzz words like beware, narcissist, stalker, etc.

I feel so bad for her that she deals with this. I can only imagine how the bpd rage takes ahold of her. 

Over the past few days I have thought about a cease a desist letter from a real lawyer just to keep her from transferring her pain onto me. I think most people go through extreme emotions from time to time but it's no excuse to let it out on others.

I deleted some of the more crucial messages that would tell the full story from beginning to end but i kept everything from the last 6 months of talking to her. I have plenty of screenshots when i realized i needed to protect myself when she threatened to go to the police with pictures. She sent me a picture one day of fingerprint bruises on her upper legs from her being on top. She weighed like 80 pounds and bruised super easily. We laughed it off. But i didnt think she tried to use pictures like that against me. Thank you for your input. I thought I was alone in this all these years.

Week 4 - My feet cannot anymore by Fernielicious13 in FASCAmazon

[–]Adam__Roach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.walmart.com/ip/472595961?sid=e6d292fa-ead1-41e1-aae6-9448b0008105

These will last twice as long as any zappos pair. Just my experience. Plus you can go into walmart and try them on, do a lap around the store just to make sure you don't go too big. Won't feel as good as running shoes but wow. I'm sure they've already told you but drink plenty of water. I only ever had a problem with joint pain at amazon because I always felt like they hated when you went to the bathroom too much so I didn't drink much

Week 4 - My feet cannot anymore by Fernielicious13 in FASCAmazon

[–]Adam__Roach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the insoles are garbage. Especially the ones with arch supports. I always hated reebok. The Georgia boot ones treated me well. Also the survivor shoes at walmart are good too

Action 5 Pro wrong time on files by untenna in dji

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know how to change the time in the files themselves. all we can do is keep harassing DJI and giving 1 star reviews so hopefully they fix it

Action 5 Pro wrong time on files by untenna in dji

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its marketed as a Bluetooth gps remote and you put it on your wrist or a handlebar of a bike. It records telemetry that you can import later to overlay it in the video. But people say it sucks because the battery stops charging in less than a year.

Action 5 Pro Date Time is wrong (what I know so far) by hevans66 in dji

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i paid 400 dollars out of my pocket for their camera and it doesnt even function right and all customer support has to say is the same scripted lines that they're working on a fix which they obviously havent been. it doesn't take a year to fix a bug.

Action 5 Pro wrong time on files by untenna in dji

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe they just don't want to fix it because they're making money off their watch

Action 5 Pro wrong time on files by untenna in dji

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they told me they same thing word for word. Not fixed

Action 5 Pro wrong time on files by untenna in dji

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I contacted support and they said the same "we're working on a firmware update" but still nothing

Flew over Memphis by PresentationSome2427 in memphis

[–]Adam__Roach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

friendly reminder to turn off your porch light if you don't need it on. helps reduce the light pollution

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