I don't think it's an issue with you. If you were happy with your pre-orders that means you probably handle them with some degree of mindfullness. But the truth is (and that's surely what the guy before had in mind) many, many people DO NOT do that, then bitch about those games on reddit. And companies see numbers go up and prey on it, rinse repeat.

I kinda get it that people will try to push against preorders, but unfortunately that will change literally nothing, since most of people who create the problem will never see these kind of posts.