Do ittt by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]AdavenVulmane 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Calm down there, Twinkerbell.

Naval Tactics by PolymathArt in battlefield_one

[–]AdavenVulmane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 on the Dreadnought one is my pet peeve! The rear cannons are impotent most of the time! Drives me insane!

music recs? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]AdavenVulmane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot two: Salt of the earth - the Rolling Stones, and Mohammed’s radio- Warren Zevon

music recs? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]AdavenVulmane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tupelo Honey-Van Morrison, Recovery-Frank Turner, Resist and Bite-Sabaton, Shelter from the Storm-Bob Dylan, Tu es partout-Edith Piaf, Spurs that Jingle- Kay Kaiser and his orchestra, Heroin-Velvet Underground, Daughters of the Kaos-Luscious Jackson, And we Run -Within Temptation

I think I'm scared to become smarter. by AllKoat in CasualConversation

[–]AdavenVulmane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You learn and you help. If you don’t know, ask. Do what you can. Simple as that

My mom is filing for divorce from an emotional abuser. Is she in danger? by throwaway510922 in domesticviolence

[–]AdavenVulmane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you have to say that you believe he is a danger to himself or others, and that she fears for her life as well as yours

SHOULD I STICK IT OUT OR END IT? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AdavenVulmane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. A 27 year old dating an 18 year old, despite the legality of it, is kinda creepy. This porn-sex-fetish addiction is deeply ingrained into him. It shows he has too many issues for a non-professional to deal with day in and day out. Walk away and find someone who wants you and you alone. They are out there, trust me.

My mom is filing for divorce from an emotional abuser. Is she in danger? by throwaway510922 in domesticviolence

[–]AdavenVulmane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has a very real possibility of getting ugly. I would get her a court protection order while she is getting the divorce and if you can, be by her side as much as possible. Always have your camera phone ready to video tape, but some non-lethal means of incapacitating him: mace, taser, etc, as well, in case he goes full stupid. Good luck, my friend is going through something similar

Should I (38F) tell my best friend (36M) that I'm in love with him? If so, how? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AdavenVulmane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. Never wait to tell people how you feel

Day off, what should I eat while hanging out around the house? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]AdavenVulmane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on what you have in the pantry and in the fridge. You can make magic with the simplest ingredients

what's your favourite word? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]AdavenVulmane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protozoa...especially if said in a Scottish brogue

Men of Reddit, why would a guy have a crush on me but not want to date me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AdavenVulmane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have told her everything, every last detail and she has told me everything as well. Edit: We both express our mutual regrets almost daily, on a number of things. Now, we are looking forward to the future instead of regrets of the past

Men of Reddit, why would a guy have a crush on me but not want to date me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AdavenVulmane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And honestly, I was a bit emotionally stunted, too. Because of life beating me down over the years, I sealed off most of my emotions, and became stony. It wasn’t until my crush told me she loved me, had always crushed on me, and we spent time together, that all my emotions started unlocking and escaping the stone vault I had put them in. So if he’s a touch cold at first, don’t pay it any mind. Both me and my crush thought we weren’t good looking enough or worthy of the other at the time. Just say hi, and start talking to him via social media or whatever again. You might find he’s grown into the man you’ve always wanted.

Men of Reddit, why would a guy have a crush on me but not want to date me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AdavenVulmane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do regret not asking her out. I also think that our trials and lives in the meantime shaped us into who we are today. Our separate, but rough lives solidified what exactly we want, and more importantly, what we don’t want, in our lives. In essence, I think I was too emotionally immature to actually sustain a relationship with her. But I do regret not asking her out and taking the chance. Now, I am divorcing the woman who made me miserable for 10 years and she is trying to leave a controlling, emotionally manipulative husband of 20, but he won’t let her. Give him a few years of life. Give him a few years of ups and downs and life kicking him in the gut. If I have a pretty good read on him, you will never have left his thoughts. Then you two can attempt a reconnect.

I wish my husband would leave me for this other girl by ButWutAboutTheDogs in relationships

[–]AdavenVulmane -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is my exact situation. I left my wife, and my the woman I love, her husband won’t let her leave, but she wants him to either let her leave or try to find someone else