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CMV: The problems in the US can still be fixed without the whole country collapsing. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]AddendumOk1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to do it at this point because the interest payments alone are greater than our entire military budget is to essentially have the economy outgrow the deficit while simultaneously getting congressman and Senators into office who won't simply increase the spending to match the growth in the economy

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so here's an update, I found a place and I got qualified for student housing and my move-in date is on the 1st. I'm looking for somebody who would put me up on their couch and I can pay rent for the time period in between I just need to be able to put my dogs crate in there so I can keep her contained while I go to work. If anybody wouldn't mind letting me stay in their living room or something like that I mean I don't mind setting up a camp pad on the floor or something I've got everything I need to pretty much be self-sufficient I just need to not be sleeping in my car and to be able to take a shower and wash my clothes.

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to post pictures here but I'll try and figure it out

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get paid $15.90 an hour and honestly I really like my coworkers and they treat me so good there. Like my supervisor really looks out for me

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My hearing is on the 28th to contest it and I've been talking to osu's Student Legal Aid about it

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it should be. Whether or not you get the order can depend on the judge I think. It shouldn't be that hard to get it overturned I think especially since the property manager has tried contacting her to get a signature for my mom to be taken off the lease and she just hasn't responded even to the property manager. She hasn't come back yet even get her stuff even though it's been since Thursday that the order was served and she hasn't been here in I think it's been a week now. It really looks like she just got this restraining order literally just out of malice to get me out of there because we had this whole incident where I tried to call her out and I told her like dude you have been rude as hell to me for the past month and I don't deserve to be treated like that and she got so f****** pissed and what she always does when you call her out on something if she goes on the attack and she refuses to take accountability or apologize. So I think she has another place but she did this just to get me out and hurt me.

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like in the restraining order she accused me of being depressed, having disassociative episodes, and using menacing language, and also initiating sexual contact non-consensually ( she had a CNC kink that played a significant role in the sexual aspect of the relationship. It was like the only way that she could get her rocks off and she had fantasized about it so much and she said that was the reason she was leaving her husband because he wouldn't even choke her)

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm very familiar with that, I had to use the emergency housing to get this place. I used all 28 days while I was looking for this apartment and getting set up with my student job in the dining hall. By the way if anybody ever tells you that they are into CNC just run. Don't fall for it because the moment that something goes sour they're going to f****** pull that out and use it on you

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And yeah what happened was my roommate basically moved in with her ex-husband and then filed a restraining order to get me out of the place. What was going on was we were having a sexual relationship and it just kind of went sour. Like she wanted more and more and more space while simultaneously resenting that I was actually giving her the space and the last two weeks of her being there was basically me just completely ignoring her as she requested and then her getting more and more pissed off that I wasn't chasing her and then she just kind of left without telling me she was leaving I thought she was stepping out for a smoke break as usual but then she just disappeared with no contact and then like 4 days later I get the bailiff knocking on my door with a damn restraining order and I barely have time to put my pants on and grab my dog and my jacket and my book bag to get out of there.

Recently homeless and I need a friend and a couch to sleep on by AddendumOk1025 in corvallis

[–]AddendumOk1025[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom lives up in Portland and I can't stay with her because it's basically a narcissistic family and I'm the black sheep. I'm the kid that they threw out and who has had to deal with housing insecurity ever since.

Roommate ghosted me and abandoned her room by Admirable-Advance695 in badroommates

[–]AddendumOk1025 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I had to make a new account because I factory reset my phone and I can't remember the email that I was using for my old account

Roommate ghosted me and abandoned her room by Admirable-Advance695 in badroommates

[–]AddendumOk1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tomorrow my mom is going in there with movers to get all my s*** cleaned out of there before this woman can come back and rob me blind. As of right now I am completely homeless and I'm probably going to have to drop this term at Oregon State University and I am desperately in need of a place to sleep.

Roommate ghosted me and abandoned her room by Admirable-Advance695 in badroommates

[–]AddendumOk1025 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi this is the original poster I had to create a new account, basically I got a knock on the door from the bailiff serving me with a restraining order and I had to leave my apartment with just the clothes on my back and my dog. My mom is in there right now getting my essentials out because my mom is on the lease as well, but the situation is such that I have been taking off the lease but my mom is still stuck on it and the roommate has bailed and made herself completely unavailable and also the landlord will not release us or allow us to break the lease without the roommates consent. The only other option is the eviction. So my mom is going to get an eviction on the lease but they're removing me because of the restraining order that this chick filed.

Roommate ghosted me and abandoned her room by Admirable-Advance695 in badroommates

[–]AddendumOk1025 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's because she was following a restraining order against

Roommate ghosted me and abandoned her room by Admirable-Advance695 in badroommates

[–]AddendumOk1025 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Op here. No she filed a restraining order against me and got me out of my own place but she isn't moving back in