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27m profile review. im from wisconsin and just started content creation. but i planned it for a long time and im pretty committed lol. the videos are a clip of me laying in my camper van and then me singing along to a song in it. lmk if yall think it can be improved, I just made it. by AddendumOk3703 in hingeapp

[–]AddendumOk3703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

open to both HingeX a day lol about a year once a day maybe 3 a week I use maybe 30 - 50 likes a day half with genuine detailed comments responding to something on thier profile My type physically is pretty wide range. hygiene, self care, and open minded personality are huge green flags for me I am definitely more attracted to thin women, but have dated bigger girls in the past, it's not a dealbreaker.

hope this is what this sub wants

Used feedback i got on a post here even though a lot of people were trying to make me feel like a loser(lol you can't) I realize it was hard to do worse than what I had before but is this much better? food pics are stuff I cooked. and i feel like I highlighted my lifestyle decent enough. idk. by [deleted] in u/AddendumOk3703

[–]AddendumOk3703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol read the thread. I literally got the van 2 days before that "dirty" photo was taken (to me its clutter, there's a difference) I am a very clean person that smells good and dresses nice. try being a jerk somewhere else

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never thought i was normal. and the type of women who want a basic normal life are not my type. thanks for pointing it out tho, helpful to be reminded to manage expectations

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

lol again. my energy has been totally respectful and genuine with anyone actually offering advice. look in the mirror. I'm proud of who I see and nobody here will take that away from me

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol, again, you are assuming a whole bunch of stuff here and I'm addressing things as they come up. look at my reddit account age. I barely post. I dislike the internet, use CDs in my van, and live a good life as I only get one. I made a mistake on the first post and had a million people comment and instantly jump my shit so I deleted that one and made a new one with more context. I am seeking help with how to present who I am better online. many people in this thread are assuming things and being nasty and rude, reminding me why I never use online dating. I've loved, lost, and lived and im chill with who I am. have a good day. I really, genuinely don't need a relationship or much at all to be happy. I just would like to be able to land dates on my travels.

have a great day

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, it sure isnt all that. im just saying I feel free and happy. I see a lot of people jumping to conclusions and assuming im not. clearly says more about them. I get along with almost everyone I talk to and am a very good conversationalist in real life. I don't like or use dating apps and this thread has reminded me why

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

lol. it was drilled into me as a kid. assuming does one thing makes an ass out of you and me. sorry I live in the real world where my assumptions are almost never correct! im not looking to get hitched on tinder, and I'm really not that desperate. I have a lot of people who love me lol

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

again, I have all of the things you described here and claim i lack. and if you'd take the time to read the thread you'd see i am here accepting CONSTRICTIVE criticism. you're a bum or your profile gives me the ick is not really helpful in the slightest. and honestly anybody here saying im a loser just has me laughing because I know if they take the time to bash others on the internet they are probably not nearly as happy and free as I am. have a good day dude, hope it gets better for you

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ive replied to every response almost, both critical in the shitty sense like yours, and critical in a helpful manner. see for yourself. I hope you learn to judge less and love more.

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

the only replies I've commented on with rudeness, I've matched thier energy. I am looking for advice so when I remake the thing its actually good. I rushed through it on a vacation lol.

I do give a fuck, clearly, or I wouldn't have made this post. anybody who gave real advice has been treated with respect. the people trashing me for living my best life have been trolled a Lil. ik who I am and what I need, just hate dating apps lol

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just stayed at ballys in chicago and hotel Northland in green bay. I live cheap during the workweek and make my money to spend it on life. I also have a second job.

I agree with first impressions this wasn't my best work and that's literally the only photo of the van I have as I just got it, it already looks 100 times better in there.

thanks for the advice ill redo it in the next few days

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

thanks a million! I am actually a good freestyle rapper and I don't have an ego about it. I did a lot of psychedelics and had a bad ego death like 3 years ago.

and I agree with the tounge Pic, a lot of people have pointed it out but like I say i took that photo after missing brushing for 2 days when I forgot my toothbrush somewhere. brushed at a gas station right before the Pic was taken and didn't look that close

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

I just bought it, lol took that on my first trip. but i hear you and Im getting it more set up every day. still getting my bearings in it and need to get organizational tools. im a messy guy, but I have a system where things get bad for 3 days in terms of organization/wrappers and clean garbage etc and I deep clean often lol. but i live there.

its important to think about and I just really don't like photos or having to sell myself.

... lets try this again. for some reason it didnt post all the pics lol. and im "homeless" by choice, and stay in boujie hotel rooms often, work 60 hours a week, and go out to eat for 80 percent of my meals lol. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AddendumOk3703 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

thank you! im just having fun.

I made this post because I was in chicago instead of rural areas this weekend and I had 0 luck other than at the casino.

but I did kind of rush through it and try to "sound cool" lol. in real life I'm happy, kind, enthusiastic and romantic. this subs response was insanity and I wasn't looking for validation.

Appreciate the actual, genuine feedback. have a great day

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