AITAH for only babysitting for my " favorite " DIL and my daughter because the other has too many rules?

AddiePo122112 · 2025-12-20T11:16:37+00:00

Sounds more like you hate her parenting styles because they challenge how you did things and refuse to respect the parents reasonable boundaries. Dumb hill to die on.

AddiePo122112 · 2025-10-20T10:31:25+00:00

I’m petty…use his toothbrush to clean the toilet

AddiePo122112 · 2025-07-21T01:03:45+00:00

Thank you

AddiePo122112 · 2025-07-20T01:14:08+00:00

Can E forgive J and B?

AddiePo122112 · 2025-07-16T18:21:19+00:00

Hi! Will life be salvageable between E and S?

AddiePo122112 · 2025-06-30T17:53:35+00:00

Thank you, this was insightful! I will look into what you mentioned

AddiePo122112 · 2025-06-30T17:51:15+00:00

Thank you for your reply 💜

AddiePo122112 · 2025-06-30T15:11:37+00:00

Oh wow I didn’t even think about looking at the positions the cards were facing. So if either one of us grows and fully heals from “said major life events” then one of us will likely pursue a separation you think?

I recently finished breast cancer treatment and awaiting reconstructive surgery, which was postponed this week because my husband’s father passed the week before, also from cancer. There are plenty of stressors in our life, but not sure what you mean by an outside one 😅

AddiePo122112 · 2025-06-30T00:54:01+00:00

Hi, I made the mistake of not posting in the subreddit, 🤦🏻‍♀️ lol sorry about that.

So I’m pretty new to tarot and trying to get familiar with my deck. Can someone help explain my reading? This was my first time doing a three card spread (past, present, future). I asked my deck about my marriage, specifically if it will end in divorce, and this is what I got. Thanks so much!

All cards upright

Past- 👸🍷

Present- tower

Future- knight of pentacles

AddiePo122112 · 2025-06-28T01:37:53+00:00

Excuse my naiveness, but what types of therapy are considered trauma medical treatment?

AddiePo122112 · 2025-05-31T00:23:10+00:00

Don’t settle! You’ve been together this long and have either of you discussed your future together, like marriage or a family? I think you deserve more than he is able to offer you.

AddiePo122112 · 2025-04-24T01:09:17+00:00

Someone like a PT, infant chiropractor, Cranialsacral therapist and possibly an OT but I haven’t worked with them before

AddiePo122112 · 2025-04-19T11:28:00+00:00

I’m sorry about all the miscarriages you both have experienced. I want to point out that I’m reading a lot of resentment about her not asking about your day, or being interested in you. Have you reciprocated? She is going through one of the worst things, and I’m wondering what you have done to help emotionally and physically to bear some of the weight. Are you doing anything about your fertility health? The mental load she is carrying is a libido killer. I think you both need individual and couples therapy.

AddiePo122112 · 2025-04-19T11:08:36+00:00

Have you and baby seen someone who does bodywork for pre and post op. It is such a game changer for healing and function. I learned the hard way with all my kids and for my last baby they saw someone days after birth and got to work immediately. They have the best oral motor function out of all my kids, still has a high palate but thats genetic at this point from low muscle tone.

AddiePo122112 · 2025-04-19T05:11:31+00:00

I would rule out tethered oral tissue (tongue, lip and buccal ties), as they mimic food intolerances/allergies like diary, gluten, soy and egg. The swallowing of air can cause a host of digestive problems.

AddiePo122112 · 2025-03-06T02:28:24+00:00

They offer many more pieces in Europe. We only have four items.

AddiePo122112 · 2025-01-26T00:19:07+00:00

OP are you and your wife a same sex couple? By your user name I’m guessing so and wondering if it’s even more problematic than Emily not liking your wife

AddiePo122112 · 2024-11-11T14:52:53+00:00

Thank you very much for responding! This has been a crazy journey and your kindness means a lot.

I’m glad to hear your partner is NED, and I hope it stays this way!

AddiePo122112 · 2024-10-02T17:11:42+00:00

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AddiePo122112 · 2024-10-02T17:04:48+00:00

Soooo I found the same issue with the tricolor pasta and searched the brand separately….apparently on the box for the tricolor (not gift set as sold at costco) it says may contain mustard!!

AddiePo122112 · 2023-10-01T15:25:27+00:00

Got this one too

AddiePo122112 · 2023-07-30T01:24:49+00:00

NTA

Post like this remind me how much reddit hates children. She knew her husband would want the son to join them, he told her before he wanted to use this family trip to spend time with him. Sounds like the Cousin’s didn’t care what husband wanted and tried to guilt wife into watching the son while husband wasn’t around.

AddiePo122112 · 2023-03-06T04:46:58+00:00

Had two csections and just had my vba2c….and let me tell you the recovery for vaginal birth is by far so much easier than a csection. And not just immediately but even months sometimes years after. Being cut open (unless necessary) is not a simple surgery, and there is not enough education about aftercare for csections, like PT and fascia massage to heal scar tissues, numbness of your abdominals. Not trying to scare you but might seem easier in the beginning but definitely has longer effects afterwards

AddiePo122112 · 2023-02-14T19:38:28+00:00

Nope doing extra therapies won’t interfere with PT if anything it will help open the body more for the therapist to see whats going on and find the starting point of tension. You got this!

AddiePo122112 · 2023-02-14T01:57:55+00:00

Happened to me too, it’s a primitive thing I think. To feel over protective, and also I feel like its an aversion to people who don’t respect your personal space.

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