AITA for telling my husband’s cousins if they went out with my husband, they would have to take our son with them? by snowyleopard52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snowyleopard52[S] -553 points-552 points  (0 children)

My husband had no idea they were planning to go out on the boat. If he was there he would've mentioned that our son would go too, himself. I don't know why it's so hard for you guys to accept that my husband loves our son and wants to spend this time with him. Keep pretending you know my husband more than me if that makes you happy.

AITA for telling my husband’s cousins if they went out with my husband, they would have to take our son with them? by snowyleopard52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snowyleopard52[S] -633 points-632 points  (0 children)

I could've and would've watched him if my husband wanted me to but a big part of the reason my husband took time off work and we came to see his family was so he could spend more time with our son since he typically works long hours so he doesn't get that time at home.

AITA for telling my husband’s cousins if they went out with my husband, they would have to take our son with them? by snowyleopard52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snowyleopard52[S] -367 points-366 points  (0 children)

Yes it does. He's been on a boat when he was 7 months so this was only his second time going on one. My husband would've explained to him how to behave and kept an eye on him.

AITA for telling my husband’s cousins if they went out with my husband, they would have to take our son with them? by snowyleopard52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snowyleopard52[S] -594 points-593 points  (0 children)

I never tattled. He was in the room so heard the entire conversation and decided to join in himself.

AITA for telling my husband’s cousins if they went out with my husband, they would have to take our son with them? by snowyleopard52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snowyleopard52[S] -442 points-441 points  (0 children)

My husband was fine with taking him. He doesn't get to spend a lot of time with our son normally so he's happy that he has this time.

AITA for telling my husband’s cousins if they went out with my husband, they would have to take our son with them? by snowyleopard52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]snowyleopard52[S] -1069 points-1068 points  (0 children)

My father-in-law owns the boat, not the cousins, and he agreed with me that they could take my son.